my wife is sexualy high almost everyday but i don get so high, my is a very sexy and attractive. pls help
2007-01-16 16:03:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
miss jennywee, i asked yr help, i luv my wife alot, unlike u i would never let my sleep with another man, thanks for yr help anyway.
2007-01-16 17:15:37 · update #1
Try satisfying her even if you don't care about any for yourself. Use your hands, your mouth, your common sense.
Often doing so will get you in the mood.
If not just knowing that you can give pleasure to your wife should help to make you a happier man. I know many men who feel as you do but who don't let it stop them from making their wives very happy women.
Ask her how she would feel about your participation in this way. My guess is she'd be all for it.
What a wonderful way to love your wife and not have to necessarily put yourself thru sex if you don't feel up to it. Enjoy her and keep her happy!
2007-01-16 16:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by outdone 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hate to answer your question with other questions, but these are some things that might be the answer. First of all, are you feeling stressed about work, personal life, or finances? Do you have some medical condition that might be hindering your sex drive? Are you still attracted to her? There are so many things that could be causing this, so the two of you need to sit down together discuss this issue.
2007-01-16 16:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out what the problem is. If you don't, someone else will satisfy your wife b/c you can't. You are probably tired or depressed. If you bust your *** off at work all day, you are probably tired when you get home. Or something is really bothering you. Something your keeping inside.
Just please her in anyway. Even if you're not in the mood. This is usually how cheating starts.
2007-01-16 16:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You man need to see a sex therapist for this problem and talk with your doctor as well... THere may be a medical problem for this... Have you tried Viagara?
2007-01-16 16:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invest in some toys
2007-01-16 16:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
have a talk with ur wife freely on every prob and way s to please her and both u can attend the doctor ...now it is easy to improve sex drive with medicine and theropy
2007-01-16 16:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by vikky 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋