I mean honest, deep down, unequivocally, rip at your own heart; hatered? Are you obsessed with hatred towards someone? Someone you have an actual personal connection to? Not like an actor, politician, etc. Someone you know on a one on one basis. Not since yesterday, but in a way that has been with you, and you know will be there a long time. If so, what does it do to you? What are the effects on your life due to your own hatered towards the other person? Does it cause problems emotionally, physically, monetarily, psychologically?
2007-01-16 15:57:59 · 19 answers · asked by hudson_floridamale 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes I used to think I hated my boss. I had nightmares about him, to the point that I was physically sick going in to work. He wasn't evil ... he just nitpicked all the damn time at every little thing. He took my piece of mind, nothing was ever right. Funny thing was, he didn't give a hoot about half the things he claimed I was doing wrong, until some other employee, or supervisor, mentioned something to him. Then I was called into the office on some bull**** issue that - in the end - didn't have anything to do with how well I did my job! He was an a**-kisser who would sell you out in a heartbeat to the head supervisor, if it made himself look better. He tried to appease everybody to the point where he really appeased nobody. The funny thing is, that the first few years I worked in this den of hell, I enjoyed my job. I enjoyed the work, I enjoyed the customers, I even liked my boss. Everybody would talk behind his back, and say what a lying, two-faced serpent he was. I never got it ... until much, much later. Now that I'm out of his department, I don't hate him anymore ... I just no longer respect him. And I feel somewhat sad that I had to transfer just to get away from him ... and to avoid losing my job over a confrontation, 'cause it was definitely coming to that!!!
Now the customers are a whole different story!!! I can write a 2000-page volume on those mother *******!!! Like I mentioned earlier, I used to enjoy serving customers. But they have slowly sapped my energy. I work in a casino. In my old position I used to be a bartender/cocktail server. I never did get a lot of tips, but at least I had a lot of appreciative customers who respected me; now all I have are people who lose their money, disrespect me and cuss me out, blame me for their loss and accuse me of trying to get them drunk for their money (who're they kidding?!! they don't tip to begin with!!! besides, the casino is getting their money, not me!!!), and ... this is the kicker, buddy ... they keep coming back!!! I REALLY hate these people, whose one goal in life is to pull me down into this big, black hole with them ... to make me just as miserable as they are!
Unfortunately, I can't escape them ... no matter WHAT department I transfer to, THEY WILL FOLLOW!!! I have to pray to God everytime I walk into that casino, just so that I can rise above the situation for the day. I have to pray throughout the day, just for God to deliver me from evil thoughts, and to prevent me from getting so frustrated that I return word for word ... Yes, I hate my customers ... with such a deep-seated hatred that it boils my blood to think about them ...
But then I get that ONE customer who reminds me of why it used to be such a joy to call myself a casino employee ... and then I don't hate my customers so much.
2007-01-16 17:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jewels 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, actually I will say that I do and I realized that it was time to change the environment. This person was a previous manager and she was not only a bad manager but a bad person as well. Since I left the company for a much better opportunity I hear about the terrible things she is doing to her remaining staff and it makes me angry, but obviously I'm not dealing with this every day, on a personal level and things are much better because I seldom think about her anymore.
2007-01-16 16:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't pay much attention to the Jonas Brothers, but they do seem kinda poopy. Miley Cyrus seems like a self-centered whole in the butt who is too grown. (Jonas Brothers seem too child like.) Who do I hate? Courtney Love is gross and ridiculous. Of course everyone hates Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie is disconnected from reality too. Lady Gaga sucks!!!! She's so ugly and untalented. That's it! That's my answer! She had a song about dancing and she can't even move. Stupid.
2016-05-23 23:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well too be honest I don't have hate like that towards any one person.I have had some really bad experiences in my life and yes I carry them with me.I even have meds to control my anger.I won't go into detail but it was the police who ruined my life. And I have absolutely no respect for them whatsoever.And It really hurts me to say this and feel this way because I'm a very spiritual person but.I hate them so bad that I can't even watch cops on TV without wanting to get a gun and shoot one of them.Now that's hate huh. I tried counseling and you name it but the hate won't go
2007-01-16 16:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister-in-law, my mother, and my youngest sister are the most sorry pieces of crap alive. They are miserable human beings that do nothing but thrive on trying to make other peoples lives as unhappy as possible. Other than that, I just hate people in general. They are liars, thieves, murderers, rapists, etc. I wouldn't mind if I lived in the mountains and never had to physically interact with another person for the rest of my life.
2007-01-16 16:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't hate anyone. I can think of 2 people that I dislike very much, but not hate. It's too powerful of a word! I think hatred towards another person puts you in a bad place in every aspect of the word hate.
2007-01-16 16:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do hate someone. A deep, loathing hate - not a superficial one. You must release it. Remove all memories and contact of this person you had, no ties to them or that memory. That will get rid of the hate. The effects in your life - sometimes you think about it. About a perfect way to humiliate them past recovery. Remove memories of them, physical things given to you - and the physical ties to hate them will go away.
2007-01-16 16:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by Je veux changer le monde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a guy who was such a smug, condecending prick (with really nothing going for him) that, as a result, I might have hated.
When you laugh when you find out that they got stabbed in the eye with a broken beer bottle (because they were an *** in a bar) does that mean you hate them?
2007-01-16 16:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by Dethruhate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. I believe that hate is a choice, and it's something that I choose not to do. people who hate others are wasting time and putting effort into doing something that is going to end up hurting them far more than it could the person or persons whom they hate.
hope this helps you out!
2007-01-16 16:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you really care? First of all, most people only direct their hatred to politicians or other people they have never come into contact with, second of all, they don't wanna share it to the world.
2007-01-16 16:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by GiR 2.0 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋