Im scared that he will freak out. his parents had him when they were 17 and 22. im just scared to ask him and i don't know how to ask him. what should i say instead of just coming out in open and saying hey i want to take a test.
2007-01-16 15:52:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell him just like that. If you dont want to do that just take it see what happens if its positive just happen to call him dad when he ask why tell him.
2007-01-16 15:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by duffmanky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go to the store and buy a pregnancy test. Take it, and if it's positive - tell him. If it's negative - tell him. Why do you need to ask him? You don't need his permission to take a pregnancy test. I'm sure his parents (if you're pregnant)will be mad at first (as will yours)but they'll get over it. After all, they were young and having a baby once, too.
Good luck!
2007-01-16 18:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by heaven25star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to tell him you are taking a pregnancy test, go and get the test and take it, if you are not pregnant then nothing will change,other than the fact that you need some birth control of some kind. If you are pregnant then there is nothing you can do about it now then you will have to tell him.
2007-01-17 00:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just come out and say " i think we are pregnant and we really need to go and buy a test".
Why don't you just go and buy a test and take it then tell him the results if it is positive.
2007-01-16 18:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take the test and see what it says first.If it is negative you don't have to say anything. Then if it is positive tell him you've been feeling symptoms that people say can be pregnancy. Tell him you are going to take a test and give him the news.
2007-01-16 16:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take the test and tell him the results later.
2007-01-16 16:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can also do it and once you get the results let him know either way. If you are not pregnant, go to Planned Parenthood and have them help you with birth control. If you are worried about this imagine what a child in your life would be. God Bless!
2007-01-16 16:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by arecibena_ausente 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What on earth are you talking about? If you think you are pregnant do a test, why do you need to tell him? Just go buy it and use it, if you're pregnant, then let him and your parents know.
If you're afraid to tell him you're doing a test, you shouldn't be having sex and you're likely with the wrong guy.
2007-01-16 15:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Noota Oolah 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't rule you.
Take the test...if it's negative, it eliminates the fears you're having and you'll be more careful next time, I hope.
If it's positive, then you need pre-natal counseling and physical care anyway...so in either event, just get it done.
2007-01-16 16:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him. You cant keep this to yourself. If you then its just as much his fault as it is yours. Trust me the stress is just to much. If he loves and cares about you he will understand and stick with you no matter the out come. JUST TELL HIM. The sooner the better. Hope it all works out for u!!!
2007-01-16 16:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋