It's a hypothetical question. I haven't actually impregnated her yet. She said that when she IS pregnant, she'll be a ***** just to spite me.
2007-01-16 15:24:52 · 26 answers · asked by BRAINS! 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
stay away...far far away !!!!.do not make a baby with this 'girl'
2007-01-16 15:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by shasha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you have children with someone who would treat you that way just to be that way? It is hard being pregnant with the hormones but I do not do it to spite my hubby and you should not want that either. If you know that she is going to be that way maybe you should find someone who can respect you and you respect her in return. I hate when am that way and my hubby is there for me if I am moody, but I also apologize and he knows I do not mean anything. :) Most of the time I am more teary though. If she plans on being a **** and is pregnant...well definitly not a good combo. But also as a father you owe her alot especially if she has your child. And if she is a great mother she will not be asking for herself. So you know children cost a lot. Also it is the law to pay for your child.
11 weeks and 2 days pregnant.
2007-01-16 23:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you really want to impregnate her under these pretenses??? The person you ultimately ahve to think of in these situations is the unborn child. It is not healthy for them to grow up watching mom and dad be spiteful to each other. If as 2 adults you are not in love and cannot even get along, why would you want to plan pregnancy.
As far as what you owe her??? If you were two loving people, you would owe her some pampering to show her how much you appreciate her and what she does for your unborn child.
2007-01-16 23:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by memyselfandI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The impression I get from your question is that the two of you are either too immature or too disagreeable to even consider having a child together.
Why would you OWE anything to the mother of your child? Why would she be spiteful if she got pregnant?
Having a child together is a life changing decision and should only be done by two people that love, respect, and care for one another.
2007-01-16 23:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You owe to the child and not the woman. You owe to the caregiver if she isn't you and consequently, might be that woman.
What you do owe to the CHILD? Is to make sure whoever the cargiver is that the person be competent, safety-oriented and loving...to give your child the best future. Is that you? Is that her? Is that adoption? Doesn't matter as long as you realize that child is a worthwhile human being and completely dependant and completely influenced by whoever the caregiver is while they're little.
Bottom line, if the child-bearer isn't the caregiver, buy her flowers. Concentrate more on the caregiver...it might be yourself...dads can be awesome.
2007-01-16 23:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by Green Booger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you will owe her is a lot, because pregnancy isn't easy. Probably the most important thing is to be understanding when she's moody and trust me she'll probably get moody. Help her around the house, basically give her the gift of relaxation from things, you know to kick her feet up. And whatever you do don't make negative comments about the weight gain.
2007-01-16 23:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends if you have children with anyone else, and who files for child support first. you could owe her 35% of your income for the next 18 years.
Oh, and you owe your child not her. Part of owing your child means respecting their mother and doing what you can to help her be the best mom she can be. She owes her child the same in regards to you. Sometimes this has to do with $$$. Most times it has to do with being a responsible parent.
2007-01-16 23:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by eyellnevrtell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she carries your child then no ammount of money can repay her debt.she will be creating your child from her own flesh and blood. it is the most sacrifising act ever. even if you make a shoe from your skin, you cannot repay her debt.and dont worry about her being a bi*ch when she is pregnant. women go through an ordeal when they are pregnant, so it will be natural for her to be a bit cranky. when you become a parent you will understand. now just relax and try to save for the future, cause a child is a big responsibility.
2007-01-16 23:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by atahsina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You, my dear, would have to be a special kind of stupid to make a baby with her. But if you are and if you do, you will owe her child support for the next 18 years plus your time and a part of your soul. And who actually cares about her. What about the child? Grow up and cover it up.
2007-01-16 23:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by Rita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect, love, adoration. Those and more you owe to the woman carrying your child. Her remark sounds quite childish to me, but you still owe her and the 'baby' respect. And if you WERE to get pregnant together, you owe that child all of you, from that point on.
2007-01-16 23:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to impregnate someone that would be spiteful?
but anyways, if you just want a child and she agrees to carry it and give it over to you.... then you don't really owe her anything, but i think an amount would have to be agreed on before anyone would do anything like that.
2007-01-16 23:28:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋