Some social help please?

Question

Hi I was wondering if you can help me out and give me nice suggestions?

I'm both extrovert and introvert. I have many many aquaintances but very few friends which I don't like.

I'm too shy to go up and ask someone if I can go out with them and their group of friends, I usually just stay in my dorm room if i'm not in class, all day and night. I don't go to parties because I don't talk much in a group but I talk alot one on one though or if the instructor asks me something I respond with confidence.

I want to be more social and have more friends but too shy you know? I hardly have any guy friends either.

Suggestions? Thanks! I'm 22 by the way.

I do like traveling and the city because people are around but I'm quiet lol. I like shopping too. If that info helps at all.

Answer 1

regardless of being shy, go out with a couple girls for lunch, and walk through a mall afterwards

the more you're seen in public, the more chances that other people will want to hang out with you as well

Answer 2

Im a lot like you. I dont have many friends either, just maybe 2 or 3 really close ones. Im not the social type and I dont talk a lot either but it's not coz Im shy, its usually becoz I dont have the time for other people and Im usually very passionate about certain topics and most people are too stupid to understand me, so I just stick close to the friends Ive got and its hi and bye to anyone else.

What I suggest you do is take up a hobby or activity that you could really get into which would involve a small socialable situation. Maybe do volunteer work.

If you do find a chance to rock up at a party, try to let loose and have some alchohol or something.

Answer 3

maybe the next time someone asks you to go out you should say yes maybe something or someone special is out there but if you dont go any where its not going to come to you get out and live a little your to young to be sitting around doing nothing