The season of lonliness and longing for a guy(which I am very unlucky when it comes to guys and no I never pursue them) is January through March.
How to over come this?
2007-01-16 15:10:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just live life to it's fulliest, don't worry so much about guys. The sad thing I am a guy, and when I was single all I worried about was why haven't I meet someone good. But when I started working out feeling good about myself and enjoying my friends, I oneday meet the right person. Just enjoy your time alone, it's the best thing god has given you.
2007-01-16 15:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by One Night 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's a tough one. I can see why these months can be tough...right after the holidays, Valentine's Day, and cold nights...
I >Hated< being single, and I'm glad to have found my dream lady.
I've felt the lonliness pain ALL YEAR LONG from around 16 until I found her. I sucked at dating because I was no good at the games and lies. In the end, I was glad I kept to being down to earth because when I found her, it all worked out well.
My tip: GET INVOLVED in various activities that may bring you in touch with guys that share your interests: School for studious guys, sporty activities for outdoor types, church if your into that. AVOID night clubs if you want a LTR. Yes, you may find a nice guy there, but I would not put any money on that bet.
Good luck...
Voice of Reason
2007-01-16 23:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what your going through. All I can say is don't look at it as loneliness and be happy about your independent, good looking, smart and single, that sounds fun. Don't chase them.
It's funny thing because when I wasn't interested in guys, there were a lot of guys that had a crush on me or came up to me. But now that I am looking for Mr. Right, nobody come across my way and I'm unlucky.
2007-01-16 23:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by Pretty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keeping busy is the key. Do not permit yourself the time to feel bad or unhappy. This is a dank time of the year, in the dead of a cold Winter some places, others its just cloudy and damp.
Stay positive, think ahead to Summer.
2007-01-16 23:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Frogface53 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, any time of depression or stress whether it be loneliness or whatever can be reduced by exercising, a healthy diet (especially water), and it sounds stupid but watching television and movies is a great way to take your mind off of your loneliness. Of course if it were ever to get to a suicidal point you need to see a counselor right away. good luck to you!
2007-01-16 23:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by LeBenze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question, pursue them. Dont expect life to come to you.
2007-01-16 23:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by polk2525 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain! lol im not very lucky either... anyway, what i usually do if im feeling lonely, is i turn up some really fast paced music, and i bury myself in other things, hanging out w/ friends, extra activities, school n stuff. it sidetracks me : ) good luck!
2007-01-16 23:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♫☺bee yourself☺♫♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that it is the perfect time for you to examine your situation and try to get over that thinking that you need a guy.
Yep. Its when you are down that you have to learn to pick yourself up.
2007-01-16 23:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by MrItwasgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a guy and when that season rolls around which is pretty much every day i just beat my junk
2007-01-16 23:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy.
2007-01-16 23:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by OTTO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋