how can you prevent premature ejaculation? My bf lasts 90 seconds and I want to help him?

Question

and help myself. he never had this problem with other women. It might be psicological or the way I am internally? He is the only guy I had sex with so I do not know if others would have the same problem. Thanks

Answer 1

Make him go very slow and use grinding motions instead of long strokes. That should feel better for you as well. Tell him to pay careful attention to how it feels to approach orgasm. He should be able to feel it welling up inside of him a good while before he orgasms. He probably never paid attention to it before. Also, if you are handling the "goods" a lot during foreplay, you might want to scale that back a bit. Make him relax and feel safe with you, and make him take his time. He won't be as tense, and that should help. If all else fails, you could try doing it twice. And also, you could show him how to make you orgasm with his hands and tongue and let him do his own thing afterward. Tantric sex is supposed to be good for this problem, but I've never really looked into it.

Masturbation is said to be good practice, but ONLY if he masturbates with the intent of increasing endurance. I think that is a detrimental factor to modern men. When most men masturbate, their goal is to get off quickly so as to avoid staying in the bathroom for an hour. It just takes some retraining. Be patient. Good luck!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

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Answer 4

"He never had this problem with other women."

Don't be so sure...

There are a number of desensitizing products that you can buy at the drugstore in the condom section with names like Detane and Mandelay. These may help.

Also, there is a technique that can help. Before he climaxes, have him withdraw. Then, you grip him firmly in your fist with your fingers around his shaft and your thumb on top of his glans. Press down on his glans with your thumb, while squeezing him firmly and counting to 10. He may soften a bit, but you can delay his ejaculation almost indefinitely in this manner.

Additionally, the two of you should develop techniques for him to stimulate and release you prior to his own release, so that you are both satisfied.

Rings are very dangerous and can cause permanent damage, since they prevent the natural blood flow out of the erectile tissue. They do NOTHING to prevent premature ejaculation, and, while they MAY help a man stay harder, the trade-off in the potential for harm is huge.

Answer 5

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Answer 7

Forgive me guys if I get it a little wrong (since I don't hve my own equipment to know), from what I understand is self discipline. If your man is use to masturbation then he is use to getting there quickly and it hard to get away from that thinking.

Not all guys are like that. Some can't get it up and some can last until your begging for a rest.

One thing you might want to consider. Chances are he'll be like that until he ready to change himself. If this is a long term relationship are you willing to have unfulfilled sex for the rest of your life? Some women are okay with it, some have fun on the side and some leave because of it. Figure out what its worth to you before you invest so much time into it.

Answer 8

Learn tantric massage. This is a real concept that was featured (in a humorous way) on "Sex and the City" a couple of years ago. It's basically a form of masturbation that is slower and more intense, and allows the man's partner to control his orgasm via certain pressure points.

Answer 9

have him bring you to orgasm using his hands or his tongue. Then, once the pressure is off, have intercourse with you on top. That, for some reason, seems to help. If he finishes really quick, stop moving for a little while and then see if you can get him going again. If he can, he'll be able to hold it for a longer time.

Answer 10

Ask him to pull out and foreplay a little more. That should throw his concentration off a bit. If this is a new relationship you just might be too excitable. But try that and remenber to practice safe sex.