I TOLD A LITTLE FIB SO MY BOYFRIEND DIDNT THINK I WAS A PRUDE AND I SAID I WASNT A VIRGIN. IF WE HAVE INTERCOURSE IS THERE ANY WAY HE CAN TELL THAT I AM A VIRGIN? IM PRETTY SURE MY "CHERRY HAS BEEN POPPED" FROM TAMPONS. BUT IS THERE ANY OTHER WAY A GUY CAN TELL?
2007-01-16 14:43:57 · 12 answers · asked by METAL CHICK_est.1977 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I would say no. He may know that you don't have a lot of experience, but a virgin? probably not. Especially if you have popped.
2007-01-16 14:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by kallmetigger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means they probably have more meaning in a relationship, or take things SLOWER because a relationship with sex can have meaning too.. im just saying though it IS good to know, and for some people its even more comforting to be with a virgin than someone whos been with.. well everyone else. You may even run into guys with less expierience and they will like the fact that you're a virgin.
2016-05-23 22:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its sorta not very common for tampons to break your hymen. stretch maybe but break no. tampons are small compared to guy parts to i doubt you really did break it but you could be one of the few who have it happen. also he might be able to tell if you are or not. becuase even after your first time of having sex it still hurts a few times after wards so if your going ow ow or are in pain then he may be able to telly ou are a virgin. he may also be able to tell f you are inexpieranced depending on whether hes a virgin to or not. but you should really tell him the truth because you should never lie or keep a secret from your boyfriend. y ou should just tell him the truth and say look.. i no it sounds stupid but i lied to you. im a virgin i just idnt want you to think i was a prude. he should understand. hope this helps :]
2007-01-16 15:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by i_love_ dancing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your cherry hasn't popped, then he will know. Plus, some women bleed during their first time. Unless you pretend that you started your period!?!?
You shouldn't give something to someone just like that. You should be honest about the whole thing. Most women during their first time just lie there. If he thinks that you have experience, he might just think that you're a dead fish in bed! No one wants that persona!
P.S. Make sure birth control & STD protection is something you intend on using.
2007-01-16 15:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Don't lie to him. Let him know that you are a virgin. He must be gentle, as the first time hurts like hell. You do not want him to be rushing into you without making you ready. The first time should be special. Enjoy. Else, I could assist pop your cherry if required
2007-01-16 23:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by feeras1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't like the way young ones say "cherry being pop" and what they think it means. it refers to a bit of skin in the vagina called a hymen which can break even from horse riding. its nothing that you can really feel. and yes a guy will be able to tell because it will be most difficult for him to get his penis inside you. besides why lie. hell prolly like you more if you tell him your a virgin guys seem to like that.
2007-01-16 15:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is not really any way that he can tell that you are in fact a virgin. Only if you aren't relaxed or are scared if you guys have sex. That's pretty much the only way :)
2007-01-16 14:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by kasey06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he will be able to tell when he enters you by how tight you are and when you bleed after. He'll be mad at you that you LIED. Never lie to a guy about sex. He will never see you again.
You cannot lose your hymen from tampons. They aren't big enough.
2007-01-16 15:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way he can tell and you most likely did NOT break your hymen with tampons as the hymen has a hole in it that lets the tampon pass through.
2007-01-16 14:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, there really is no way for him to tell which is lucky for you since you lied!!!
2007-01-16 15:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by chitterchatter1818 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋