im really scared that my best friend is being hurt by her boyfriend,she doesnt talk to me anymore and when i call her she just says she cant talk long because he will get mad,i cant tell anyone he hits her or anything because she doesnt have bruises on her face or anything, but she wears long sleaves all the time and always has her hair down,and she doesnt talk to anyone but him anymore.i tried talking to her but she just told me to leave it alone
2007-01-16 14:37:42 · 2 answers · asked by curly_17954 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She won't listen if hes controlling her...I once heard that it is a process to leaving an abusive relationship...like the grieving cycle. She blames herself or he made her to believe it is her fault. She has to come across this information and learn the signs of an abusive relationship. And when shes ready be there for her when she needs you. If you believe he is dangerous to her you have to tell someone you can trust and that can help her. Maybe his best friend...if he has one...if he's a nice guy. Other than that you'd have to go to the cops.
2007-01-16 15:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by LoStN8tive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know her mom well enough then talk to her mom. She might be angry at first but if its true she'll thank you later because she could be in a dangerous situation/ Or talk to your Mom or Dad about it. Tell someone.
2007-01-16 22:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by bluecolouredflames 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋