Thus guy I know has given me tutoring lessons, and he's always asking me if I would like to sign up for more, but I told him I was going through financail difficualty and couldn't so he offered free sessions, but I never took advantage but what was weird was the fact that he txt messaged me last night at 12:00 midnight asking me if I wanted to sign up for more tutoring sessions and I told him I didn;t know, and he was like well let me know when you have an hour free...Does anyone thinks thats sort of weird..? And what do you think his agenda might be?
2007-01-16 14:25:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Oh yeah..BTW, he told me that he found me to be very attractive, and that he would love to be my friend.
2007-01-16 15:05:37 · update #1
I think he either likes you a lot or he is some sort of sexual predator. He's kind of creepy. Give it some time without being tutored (say you're too busy) and see how it turns out. He will probably back off after you give him some signs.
I hope I was helpful. Good luck!
2007-01-16 15:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll agree with those who say there's a hidden agenda in there. It's one thing to say hey, I know people get strapped for cash maybe I can throw some free lessons in, but at midnight?
A lot of it would depend on your previous conversations with him. If it sounded like you might have wanted some extra lessons, he may have gotten a mixed signal, but it doesn't seem that way. You'll have to go on your gut feeling about his personality. If you think he's good hearted and really wants to help out, and that's it, then you need to let him know you appreciate the offer, but you're not intersted at this time. If you have a red flag coming up in any way, you need to find a way out, quickly. Either way, let him know you're not interested in it right now and that's not going to change. Let some friends know about it too. You don't have to make a big deal about it, maybe just mention it and see what they say. If it gets worse, let some others (adult figures) know.
2007-01-16 15:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people do their 'paper work' after hours. I worked for many years on the 'graveyard' shift and in between rounds I would do other things to keep Myself occupied. Perhaps He text messaged a number of people and You are just one of them? I would tell Him that You switch Your phone off after a certain hour each might, or that You have a call divert to Your message bank. Sounds like He is just trying to drum up more business.
2007-01-16 14:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god girl, is there anyone who can't read this situation? I mean this guy doesn't want you to sign for more tutoring lessons, but wants you to be his booty call... I mean midnight? What, is he thinking about your welfare and future success at that hour? Nothing is for free... specially not from guys. Be strict with him and tell him that you're not interested... unless you are. Otherwise, he'll keep pestering you.
2007-01-16 14:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Changed by Lithium 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl run!!!! This is bad news.This guy has something terrible in his agenda.I mean calling you''HIS STUDENT''at 12:00AM is not at all appropriate.I'm thinking RAPE.Be careful and if it keeps occuring be straight forward with him and if he doesn't stop then you need to let someone know,either a friend or a relative or a neighbor that you talk to.
2007-01-16 14:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Alina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly, ideally i might want to seize him with a sensible catch. The catch being asking a chum what my/his e mail address is and signing into my e mail to coach that i'm me. yet when I were easily interior the area, i might want to likely finally end up using the most self-insulting insults i might want to sling at him in hopes of emotionally destroying him. What might want to artwork on me might want to artwork on him, no?
2016-10-15 08:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he hs just trying to help u cuz he is being nice to u .....he might really like u that is why he is doing this for u ......but he could have forgotten about the finacial situation so jsut remind him again in a nice way
2007-01-16 14:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep sounds weird to me. Be very careful. Especially if he is older.
2007-01-16 14:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get you obligated for more paid lessons ; if he liked you he;d ask you to dinner
2007-01-16 14:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Nora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he either likes u alot or wants to kill u
2007-01-16 14:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by secretrainbow89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋