We were together about a year ago. Things weren't that good. He did a lot of drugs and drank a lot. In the end he flipped out and he had to go through his own personal problems. Anyway I've talked to him little over the entire year. When all of the sudden he asked me out again and said he still loves me. I really have no idea what to do. I know that part of me still loves him yet part of me thinks that I shouldn't. One of my friends told me to hang out with him first and see if hes really changed (hes quite smoking and drinking). He says how he wants to marry me and be with me. He tells me how he wants me but hes willing to wait. Should I give him one more chance?
2007-01-16 14:23:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HE QUITE SMOKING AND DRINKING....again I repeat...
2007-01-16 14:30:51 · update #1
Remember he's an ex for a reason. People don't just up and change. Even if so it takes more then a year. BUt best of luck to ya!
2007-01-16 14:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by kelly p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
and you did not learn your lesson
he WILL relapse into drug and alcohol
you never fully borke it off
and that shows a lack of maturity on YOUR part
as sins like that are NON forgiveable
you NEVER keep up the contact
the only reason you do is because you lack self esteem and believe you cannot get any guy better than what you had
in short you settled for MUCH MUCH less and you have low standards for any sort of relationship
you need to take a hard look at yourself
stop talking to him ( and basically forget him in general )
and hang out with more positive people
their in time you discover positive men who can form and sustain healty realtionships.. as you are not ery mature at all that much is clear
good luck
2007-01-16 14:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build a friendship first. Don't go in thinking this will be a relationship. Just be friends
2007-01-16 14:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Shon@1618 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say your chances of success with an ex you have a bad history with or always less than good. Regardless of his newfound sobriety I'd say no.
2007-01-16 14:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the reasons why you split up. He is your ex for a reason and people don't change.
2007-01-16 14:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows ? may be he has quite really ?
and may be not donot give him a chance just give him a small test if he REALLY QUITE come back to him
2007-01-16 14:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question really is "Do You Want Him Back?"
2007-01-16 14:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else who doesnt drink or smoke.Trust me you will be better off.
2007-01-16 14:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Giad G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run the other way
2007-01-16 14:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that was the booze talkin...lol
2007-01-16 14:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by drjayz_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋