I am in a 4 month relationship, not so in love, but really happy. He is talking about serious plans toghether...how can I know if He is the one for me?
2007-01-16 14:07:59 · 11 answers · asked by NENA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The relationship is still young. Give it some time to develop. You need time to really fall in love. Do things together. I was not immediately in love with my last relationship. But by doing things together you will fall in love with him. You might be attracted to him and like him but falling in love needs a little time. You need to build memories together. he needs to take your breath away before thinking about serious plans. You will know if he is the one for you when you do not see yourself being with anybody else but him; when you want to give him your all and think about the future when you are with him. You probably will not be asking this question a year from now. This is to say that a relationship takes time to develop and you need to know someone before you start making serious plans with that person.
2007-01-16 14:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can be happy with any one but u cannot love any one !!
feel happy not enough to go in serious plans and 4 month is not enough time to know if he is the one for u or not . . .
BUT ur heart is the one who had the answer of this q
2007-01-16 22:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months is too short of a time to know if he's right for you or not. Serious plans, such as living together, kids, marriage, etc. should only be considered if you love him, Give yourself some time to get to know him better. you can't know all there is to know about him in only 4 months!
2007-01-16 22:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to be confuse sometimes.
The way that you know if he is the one for you is by lissining to your heart i guess.
Ask your self these questions...
Are you happy with him?
Do you feel confert by his side?
When he gets close to you dous your heart sart betting fast and you get nervous?
When hes not around do you miss him?
Dous he treat you right?
Do he put you before his friends?
Do he say he loves you?
Do you both argue allot?
Can you picture yourself with him for the rest of your life?
Dous he get allong with your family? (hey need to know right)
These are some questions that wil let you know if he is the one.
Maybe if you just let time past you could actually see were your relationship is going.
Good luck i hope that you guys are happy together.
2007-01-16 22:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jahaira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not feel he is the right one for you especially since you dont love him.... Trust me on this one... Also he sounds more like a friend if you are only happy and not in love.
2007-01-16 22:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off...you shouldn't be asking yourself..that's kind of a red flag right there. Secondly you would know if you were in love, there would be no question. You just feel it. Something inside of you tells you that you have to have that person in your life. Ask yourself how you would feel if you didn't have him in your life anymore and there's your answer.
2007-01-16 23:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Susan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends
are you ready for a serious relationship after just 4 months?
explain to him that you arent ready yet
if he REALLY loves you, he will accept it and wait until you ARE ready
2007-01-16 22:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by Erin Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll make this very simple... If you have to ask the opinion of anonymous (if benevolent) strangers on the internet, you already know that he isn't right for you.
2007-01-16 22:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are even questioning it or asking that question, rest assured he is not the one for you. You even said so yourself by saying you are "not so in love".
2007-01-16 22:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by MG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only 4 months ?!? that is to early. your not ready
2007-01-16 22:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋