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ok, this post might be a little immature but i need advice ...

so, my boyfriend got a hardon the other day in the cinema. he was all over me in there and when he stood up i could see why. this has happened before as well, but the thing is, i duno how to act..? like i think he';s kind of embaressed, but what should i do/say? should i just pretend i didn't see it? is it normal for guys to get hardons all the time, even if we';re just making out?

2007-01-16 14:06:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

15 answers

it's very normal. it's also normal for it to embarrass you. the best thing to do is to not acknowledge it if it makes you uncomfortable. just because he gets hard doesn't mean there's anything you need to do about it.
forget all these people telling to to help him relieve it. he has a hand & I'm sure he's well practiced.
only do the things that you're comfortable with

2007-01-16 14:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0 1

Oh, well, your boyfriend is a bit over eager.

But it's a little normal; you and he were making out and he was aroused. It's just what happens, especially to teenagers.

The point is, you're obviously uncomfortable with it. Sit down and have a chat. Maybe you guys need to talk about your sexual situation. Do you two plan on having sex? Are you uncomfortable or not ready to have sex? It's a situation that needs to be out in the open so you guys an progress emotionally in your relationship. So have a heart-to-heart with him. And maybe stop making out the movie theatre and watch the movie you paid ten bucks to see.

2007-01-16 14:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

-Honey. Yes it is normal for Guys to get hard -ons, most times they have no control of that or where, when they're maturing. But especially when making out with his girl.I'd be worried if he didn't, when you two are kissing etc.
If it was me in your position. I'd give him time to just sit and get things together, before he stands up. Finish kissing etc 15mins + before the end of the movie and before you have to leave. Definitely don't giggle and try not to get a red face yourself. It makes matters worse.
If it happens again, just whisper it's so cool you like me and it's ok ,I know it's embarrassing for you, but it happens to all guys. Us girls have our embarrassing things too.
I hope this helps. Ciao Good luck

2007-01-16 14:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I would not make an issue of it. Just would embarrass both of you.
Like when girls "bounce" when the walk. That is normal. If a guy stared and said "wow, your chest really shakes when you walk," the would only put him and you in an embarrassing moment. Do not ignore his erection. But do not stare and point, make comments. it. It is somewhat a way of showing his feelings for you, but do not make an issue of it. Treat your bodies as natural and not something bad or embarrassing. Bottom line, if he responds this way when he is with you, then he really likes you.

2007-01-16 14:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

wow, that's real funny, I bet he was an animal at the moment, and you're wondering "what's wrong with you", ad then he stands up, and, lol, real funny! The best solution is for both of you to have a good ****, then after that go see a movie.

2007-01-16 14:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Loving Life, Always, and Forever 2 · 0 1

It sounds like you are very immature. I recommend
you get some counseling from the plan parenthood
center before its too late.
But don't listen to Gabrielle

2007-01-16 14:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

that's is very normal in a guy you must be a big turn on to him
If you take it to the next level protect yourself. be save not sorry have fun now

2007-01-16 14:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

yes its pretty normal and I would just pretend that I didn't see if if you say something it may embarrass him

2007-01-16 14:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by youhoo it's me 4 · 0 1

it is you that makes him like that, if he loves you, it can happen any time any place! just the sound of your voice or the touch of your hand

2007-01-16 14:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by whateverbabe 6 · 0 1

If you must ask this question, might I suggest you abstain from making out?

2007-01-16 14:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

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