I have had gut feelings that he is, and for a while now, and sometimes he acts really weird. I have caught him hugging on other women like at the stores and stuff. Then when I asked him why he gets really mad and says that I shouldn't be questioning him. Tonight he got a phone call from a female co-worker and she made the comment on the answering machine that this is the first night that we will be working together. What do you think?
2007-01-16 13:56:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your gut is usually right. It sounds like he could be cheating - acting weird, hugging other women, the phone calls from the co-worker, him getting mad. All signs of a cheating spouse.
2007-01-16 14:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In so many instances, there are the symptoms of a hidden problem just as you have indicated. But, it is -what it is. Because you know, you need to ask. When? No time may ever be the "best" time. If he asks you to forgive him and he seems sincere, it is advisable that the two of you draw up some guidelines, boundaries or no-no's to bring trust, security and accountability back into your relationship.
2007-01-16 14:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by SkeetFighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating sign are:
1] He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
2) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
3) You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
4) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
5) He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
6) He works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
7) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's home.
8) His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
9) You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.
2007-01-16 14:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey. Some ways I can tell is if like he just all of a sudden changed. But if you have gut feelings that he is, then its probaly true. Your gut instinct is right 9 times out of 10. But go with what your heart tells you baby. I really hope he isnt.
2007-01-16 14:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st was he always a social butterfly?or did he just become 1 since u've been married?process his personality?write on a pc of paper pro's/con's/q: & a:.be very truthful with ur self how respectful is he?how much "value"is in ur relationship?how much do u value urself(ur innerself)has it lead u wrong b4?2 have complete understanding of one's self and ur well being is 2 know if he is or not.do u trust urself?as 4 the chic that called F*** her she's not worth worrying about b/c if he's cheating he'll cheat on her 2 & he come's hm 2 u so she's nobody.as 4 u PLEASE LOOK inside & LISTEN 2 ur inner-bell.Everthing happen's 4 reason's.been there it's hard but after the pain come's joy.good luck.
2007-01-16 14:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by cleo 888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your intuition says that he may be cheating. Well, he might be. A woman has a unique since of smell and we can detect these things but, a word of advice. What you don't know won't hurt you. This might sound crazy to you but, the truth will come to light. He may be cool with a lot of females but, none of them will be on the same pedistool as you. So, just chill. My thinking is ... Just ask him what can you do to be a better wife to him?
2007-01-16 14:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by VON 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well from experience the cheater usually starts arguements with you and likes to lay blame on you for no reason at all.. and they do take alot of calls where they would be very open to talking to u about who on line or what that was about and all of a sudden they are very quiet about the calls.. Does he start taking better care of himself before he leaves home.. grooming... or does he rush to shower and avoid eye contact when he comes home..lots of things you will see.. making love will also be different if you really love him and gave your whole heart to him the you will be able to tell... and if none of this works for you ask him .. come right our and ask him .. and if he denies and wants to argue about it hes cheating... or bluff him pretend u know and he may confess ..GOOD LUCK
2007-01-16 14:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your gut is telling you something is not right then I would seriously listen to it. While it is possible nothing is going on, you are right, there are a bunch of warnign flags that would make me suspisous too...If she is writing only to him on My space and he is writing back inappropriate things, then confront him and ask him about it. Be honest with him and tell him what is making you uncomfortable with thier relationship, dont keep it bottled up inside you because it will always be on your mind...most importantly though, listen to your instincts and if things dont feel right, then you should have a talk with him asap.
2016-05-23 22:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe your gut feeling. Your gut is always right. If he is being defensive, acting strange, coming come late, leaving early, telling lies, buying new clothing, cars, using the credit cards, just acting weird, he's creeping.
2007-01-16 14:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was curious of the same thing so I looked up "how to tell your spouse is cheating" in a search engine....Here's some of the sites I found
http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/How_can_you_tell_if_your_spouse_is_cheating
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Tell-If-Your-Boyfriend-or-Husband-Is-Cheating-On-You&id=43081
hope that helps some!
In responce to someone saying to ask him...be careful with that, if he is, he will deny it, and then will be even more careful so he's not caught, and then you may never know!
2007-01-16 14:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋