i mean she has always been the flirty type but not exactly the good flirty type... she can be annoying and some of the other girls dont like her for it.... also she has been acting really strange: theres this one guy she likes and she is always messing / his stuff and yelling at him(not mean yelling) also his moms a teacher at the school and she is in the classroom EVERY day and is always REALLY REALLY loud and bothersome(like ppl move cuz she can b so loud) also i tell her things that r fine 4 ppl 2 no but u may not want EVERY1 2(i hope im making since) so when i tell her things she will tell everybody and its getting annoying............... i think she may be acting like this because of family problems so im not sure.... pls help me ... i don no wat 2 do or how 2 act 2 her.... pls
2007-01-16 13:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by Laur 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ive known her since pre-k.... she is really nice and i love her like a sister.... i cant stop being friends w/her
2007-01-16 13:41:17 · update #1
well she's definately being immature. sit her down and have a serious convo with her. like "hey look im telling you this cus im ur friend and i care about u. ur acting ridiculous and ur coming off as immature and its gonna make people hate you. if you need to talk about something talk to me but you have to stop acting this way cus its out of control" and give it ur best. remember your main ovjective is not to hurt her feelings but to get her to listen
2007-01-16 13:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, sounds like you need to sit her down and have some serious girl talk. This could take a lot of you being very quiet and letting her get it out. Maybe have her over for a sleep over or something when she is not pressured to show off to other people or try to be someone else. Good luck and for what it is worth your sound like a great Friend.
2007-01-16 21:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by KEOE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the loud mouth that if she wants to keep you as a friend, to straighten out and shut up. You don't have to be a slave to your friend. she's probably acting weird cause she's feeling guilty about something...but, hey, that's not your problem. I'd back off if I were you. "Birds of a feather flock together"...
2007-01-16 21:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will always tell everyone everything, after awhile you will just quit telling her things, the when she finds out you confide in someone else she will act all hurt, I have just gone through 3 years of hell trying to hold on to a friendship that meant allot to me, not so much to her.
the sooner you move on and get rid of her the less painful it is going to be, sorry
2007-01-16 21:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by BK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being the best friend, you should acknowledge her change and see if she needs someone to talk to... give her a listening ear and a solid shoulder to cry on. if you care about her, just be there for her and help her through what ever it is if she needs it!!! hey, isn't that what best friends are for???
2007-01-16 21:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by DSGG424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably going through puberty
2007-01-16 21:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by silverdiamondtnt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋