2007-01-16 13:31:01 · 8 answers · asked by andralynn147 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The first time does not have to hurt. You should go slowly and make sure that you're very lubricated before starting. It may still hurt depending on whether or not your hymen is broken and how tight you are. I always recommend using buying some lube if you're worried. USE A CONDOM! One of my closest friends got pregnant her first time.
As far as the feeling goes, it's nothing that I can describe. It feels wonderful, especially if you don't experience much pain. Your mother will never tell you that, but it does. (My mom finally fessed up after she found out that I wasn't a virgin. "I knew you'd love it, but I didn't want to encourage you...")
Just make sure that you wait until you're ready. Don't let anyone pressure you into it, not even yourself. Good luck!
2007-01-16 13:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by mkbrocato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex does not hurt. At least it shouldnt. Your first time may be a little uncomfortable but there shouldnt be any severe pain. Some women are uncomfortable during, and a little bit after, and some are fine. My first time did not hurt at all because we took it slow and I was ready. Make sure you are relaxed, otherwise your partner will have to force himself inside of you causing pain and discomfort. The first time may not be as pleasureable as all the other times but it definitly gets better :) Just be sure that you are ready. Also, some women bleed their first time, I didn't but you may. It will not bleed that much or for that long, but just wear a panty liner if this happens to you, that should take care of it. Be careful and take it slow so you don't feel any discomfort :)
2007-01-16 15:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by kasey06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're really truly ready, you will know. If you have any doubts at all, DON'T do it!!! You will regret it. Now, if you're really ready, it may hurt a little cause it's your first time and all, but you'll know you're ready, so it probably won't be that bad.
2007-01-16 14:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 100% ready, relax, take it slow and easy, and make sure you are well lubricated, and relaxed. It might be painful, but gets better with a good patient and sensitive lover
2007-01-16 23:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by feeras1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time feels like a burning ripping sensation. after that it feels gooood. as long as you are relaxed and in love you'll enjoy it!!!
2007-01-16 16:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i havent had it but i hurts. a guy is sticking his u know what in u. u might bleed your first time so i would keep a liner handy.
Good Luck.....
2007-01-16 13:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Kathryn*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to bed. School starts early.
2007-01-16 13:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by act as if 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a question you should ask your mom. If you really want to know, talk to her...
2007-01-16 13:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by AMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋