2007-01-16 13:21:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, it is normal to feel attracted to many people, and you can't help to feel that way. You should just learn to control yourself, Thoughts turn into feelings which turn into actions which turn into habits which turn into your character, so do your best to control it at the thought level. That way you'll find someone you like, and will be able to enjoy him better. Good luck!!!
2007-01-16 13:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by FORNIDO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Its not wrong. The only way I see it as wrong is if you are in a committed relationship with someone else. EVERY SINGLE good looking guy seems a little extreme, and its a matter of asking yourself whether or not you are in control of your sex drive. If you can turn "off" this lustfulness in appropriate circumstances, and resist from being promiscuous, then I see no problem. If, on the other hand, its hurting you or someone you love, or it leads to dangerous sexual practices, or feels out of control, you may want to seek professional counseling.
Best wishes!
2007-01-16 21:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by neverneverland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you think defines right and wrong. If you think there's an old white-bearded man in the sky (i.e. God) who just arbitrarily makes up rules, quite possibly. Go ask your priest or whatever type of head-person there is in your religion.
If you think that God, whether or not he/she/it/ze exists, doesn't just get to make up arbitrary rules, then just think about it instead. Does fantasizing about these guys hurt anyone? Does it hurt them? Does it hurt you? If yes, then it's probably not a good thing. If not, then why is it a problem?
Also, if you're a teenager, I'd say it's pretty normal to be fantasizing about just about everyone. No worries.
2007-01-16 21:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by hynkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Even i do fantasize after every single good-looking guy I meet
2007-01-16 21:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have respect of others and for yourself. Be lust and fantasies as much you can. There is nothing wrong there my friend. May your religion would make you believe that fantasying is a sin ? I always read between the lines and it is so practical.
2007-01-16 21:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lust after every good looking guy that i meet so i dont think it is wrong.
2007-01-16 23:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by joe s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with fantasy, its that part of our imagination that we actually have total control over. Do not fret about fantasizing. Its totally normal.
Now, if you said you had sex with every guy, that would be different.
2007-01-16 21:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Rotten Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just a lustful person. You just haven't found the right one.
2007-01-16 21:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by Dacious P.I. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well from a religious stand point sin is sin. no sin is greater than another. but i don't believe it to be a sin if it's something that comes along with human nature ei sexual preference, lust in our heart excetera...
2007-01-16 22:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to lust period, regardless of your orientation.
2007-01-16 21:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋