2007-01-16 13:03:57 · 16 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
match.com myspace.com eharmony.com i met my husband on match.com it was worth the money.
2007-01-16 13:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by mizzms 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You bet. But before you get on line, do some honest self-evaluation.... no one will be interested in your wonderfulness if the cover is shabby. Invest some buckos on yourself: Firstly, if you do not have a killer smile, get one at the best cosmetic dentist in your area. (mine will burn down a room --- uh, no, a forum!!!) Beautiful teeth radiate health, and healthy is sexy. Loose some weight, have your hair done by a real pro, and your make-up, too. Buy some great clothes, and have some nice photos taken -- not glamor shots, just good photos. Go one line and look at the ads of women your age, and see what you find appealing about them. Use those to make your own personal. Yahoo, Match.com e-harmony are all big, and all good places to start. Met my ex thru personal advertising. And after he was killed, found the great prince I am with now with Yahoo. My ex and I found each other when personal advertising wasn't even very popular. You will meet really great guys, and some super nut cases as well, just like in church sitting right next to you. Use good sense, meet in public places, and find out all you can, and do some checking --- because he will be doing that on you. Good to meet his friends, and for the most part, those men are as well looking for a wife. Don't date guys who won't give you a phone number, where they work, and for sure, if they announce that they are separated, forget it!!!! And I never had much luck with a widower -- she's dead, but she is PERFECT -ly dead....you don't have a chance. Hope this is helpful
2007-01-16 21:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I have to tell you that even your avatar looks kind of down and sad. Even by that I can tell that you have to change your attitude.
Then you have to leave this guy who definitely do not have good feelings for you, because even with that he was busy he shouldn't ever speak with you like he did. Even with that you were snapped at him, still he was rude and he deserved that. Cut him off complitelly!
Then go to every site you like and put your ads there. Because in your age it's absolutely normal and the best way to find a right guy for yourself.
Why? Because in this age everybody who you know are busy with their own family or their own jobs or interests. So, you have to take the business in your own hands. An take it good and make it right!
Do not be afraid and use you common sense and your smartness to make it work for you.
There are some sites for free, one of them is: matchdoctor. com
Then of course: yohoopersonal, match.com which will allow you use it for free for some time and also lets you to find information about people who you are interested about.
Do not be shy, go and write to the men you like first. Use all information and knowledge you have without even thinking twice. You are smart and intelligent, so use it finally!!! Take advantage on all you got in this age and get the best.
Wish you good luck and please to not waste your time with men who doesn't care about your feelings even if you like them. It won't work.
My personal advise:
Take a very good, truthful picture of yourself, whatever what, so in this point you can avoid confuse people and it will save your time and it WILL GIVE YOU REALL RESPONSE.
2007-01-16 22:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you would want to meet a single guy rather than a husband. Have you tried a gym? Maybe church? Taking classes at a local college? Take up a new sport/hobby? Volunteer...Get a dog and walk it in an area other people walk their dogs...
2007-01-17 02:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go where the guys are. A store where they sell men clothes. Also, a book store if you want to find intellectual guys. Stay away from bars and night clubs, because you will have to sort through guys who just want to jump your bones, in order for you to find a potential husband.. So why go through that headache. If you want to meet professional guys, or guys with good incomes, then go to expensive restaurants, golf clubs , expensive hotels etc. I would suggest me, but I got my mind occupied with pursuing ideas rather women right now....lol.
2007-01-16 21:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Church groups are the best if you want to find a potential friend, also through friends sometimes. Worst is a club/bar
2007-01-16 21:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by malk e 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At a coffee shop/bookstore. A concert. Friend of a friend's dinner or wine party. The meat section at the grocery store. An art exhibit. Lots of places.
2007-01-16 21:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very hard for people our age (I'm 38) to find quality singles. A lot of folks are either divorced and bitter or single and damaged - it's very difficult to find somebody who would be compatable.
Good luck!
2007-01-16 21:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
email me lol
Just kidding, I don't think you should meet people through online dating sites. I think it's just supposed to happen. You can't just go looking for a husband. My theory is that maybe you should go looking for my buddies and let things develop naturaly. If they start to turn romatic than thats great. But you should also take your time with things.
2007-01-16 21:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by jwbout 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I met my husband on eharmony. I'm serious. We clicked from the beginning and have been happily together ever since. We are also expecting our first child together. He accepted my two children as if they were his own.
2007-01-16 21:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by marlenekay4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first have to know what kind of husband you want.
If you want to find a Christian you will most likely find him in church.
If you go to a bar you will most likely find one that drinks.
Learn to smile, and make eye contact.
Respect youself and he will respect you. In other words if you sleep with him on the first date dont be surprized if it is the last date.
Talk to friends, friends like to match singles up. They might get lucky and find someone you really like.
Be realistic about what/who you are looking for. Not every one can marry rich and good looken. If your rich and good looken then you might have a larger pool to choose from.
2007-01-16 21:24:42 · answer #11 · answered by Only by the grace of God 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋