2007-01-16 12:50:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't have to do anything. If your husband truly loves you then he should tell his ex to go on. Tell your husband how you feel. She had her chance.....obviously it didn't work and she needs to be reminded.
2007-01-16 13:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by alymarie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Need not worry what his ex wants, what does your hus-
band want. If he wants her back then you need to have
a serious talk with him and find out why , and if not then
he being the husband needs to put his ex in place not you
however you have the right to tell him to do that. If in case
ur husband does still feel for her and his actions speak
the same then you will need to make a decision as to what
is best for you and if his actions towards his ex keeps on
then being married one year is not that long of a time for
someone to go on with their life and maybe find someone
that is really for him or her. Find out what the feelings
of your husband towards his ex is then go from there, as
he will be the one making the decision as to who he
really loves. Good luck.
2007-01-16 13:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he want her back? If he's now married to you, why would his ex even be a consideration in your marriage?
He needs to be very clear with both of you: you are his wife and he's with you, not her. If he won't stand up and make that declaration, then you will have to decide what is best for you. Do you really want to be with someone who would allow a third person into your marriage?
Stand up for yourself - and for your marriage.
2007-01-16 13:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by MomBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He married you and needs to make that clear to her. If she continues then maybe he is not making that message clear enough. He needs to let her know that she lost out and to leave you and him alone to build your life together. By the way what a *itch
2007-01-16 13:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Loves Ladybugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he want her? if he does get your clothes and shoes and walk out the door. you dont need that. you can do alot better. but if he doesnt want her back, then sweety hes yours and she has to bud out of your lives. a marriage is about working together and making things last and still be magical between the two of you.
2007-01-16 12:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him and see what he wants to do, stay with you or go back to her. He did marry YOU so he must be over HER, unless he was rebounding, which I hope for your sake, he wasn't. Anyway just ask him who he really wants to be with and if it's you, just tell her to p### off!! Good Luck!
2007-01-16 13:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too late for the ex and he should close the door on a relationship with her immediately.
2007-01-16 12:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Al J 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have to do anything. If he loves you he will make the decision. If he strays to her then kick him to the curb. If he cant be faithful to you and your marriage then you dont need him
2007-01-16 13:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by marlenekay4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is there to do? It all depends on what your husband feels about the situation.
2007-01-16 12:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by rtanys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should only worry if he is acting as f he may want her back. Is he changing? Does he act distant with you? If not, keep it moving.
2007-01-16 13:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋