Okay well this is going to be pretty long. Im 16years old my boyfriend went to jail and his 16 too. I went to his court today and wrote to the judge saying im pregnant and bla bla bla and it mite help 2..so im waiting tell the next court..Me and my boyfriend when he was no at jail we planned to have a baby!..We had sex averyday for 1 mouth and i got my period and i thought to myself WUT is wrong. someone told me u could be pregnant still. took a test said nagtive..Then we had sex on my period and of my period again!.my period finsh last mouth on the 30th so after that i had sex tell the 8th of this mouth...I noticed my breast hurt and i couldnt sleep on it... then JuSt today I got blood coming out but this blood is like running nose kind of blood you know how you get a bleeding nose well its exactly like that..Could i be still pregnant my boyfriend was happy when he thought i was pregnant!..and now i unno if i am or not!..
2007-01-16 12:29:08 · 20 answers · asked by ? 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Seriously, grow up before you have a kid. You don't know what your getting yourself into.
2007-01-16 12:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by hopewishdream 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It can take a while to get pregnant. It doesnt always happen right away and you have to try around ovulation time. So I doubt if your pregnant. Which is a good thing , because you dont need a baby at 16, especially when your boyfriend is in jail. Seriously. You have no idea what you are getting yourself into. I have 3 boys and a baby girl on the way, and my husband and I have been married for 12 years and let me tell you , it is not at all an easy task taking care of a baby and its very expensive. Even if you think you have it all figured out, you will wonder why you did what you did when you are older. I always wonder why I did some of the stupid things that I did when I was younger, and I realize now that, yes most of the things I did were stupid. You need to just wait on the baby.
2007-01-16 12:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Blondi 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I have to say this....
You and your boyfriend are the reason this country (and I'm assuming you're in the US) is going broke over government programs. Your boyfriend is in jail, so we have to provide a state facility to keep his a*s*s locked up, feed him and rehabilitate him for whatever it is he broke the law for in the first place, then you get pregnant and have a baby that you can't afford or take care of, so you go on welfare and medicaid to pay for the baby and your lifestyle...I mean, come on. When will you pay for your way yourself? Are you really that uneducated? Do you really think it's fair that all the rest of us pay for your baby and you and your sorry a*s*s boyfriend?
Happiness is more than just being pregnant. That happiness goes away when you see how expensive a baby is to raise. Then if you're on all these programs, how sure can anyone be that your child isn't going to grow up a criminal stuck in the same system your boyfriend is in?
Get real! Get an education! Don't get pregnant!
2007-01-17 10:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want a baby? you will resent the baby when you are a little bit older and cannot go out and do what you want. Being pregnant will only make the judge think your bf is irresponsible and a fool for getting someone preggers at 16. i had a kid at 22 and still sometimes wish i had my freedom back. Also you will probably not be with this guy for long... a person changes so much just in 5years.
2007-01-16 12:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by stinky 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are oo young to be having a baby!!! Trust me I am a young mom...and while I love my son unconditionally and wouldn't change anything about him or having him...I really wish I would have waited! Do you even know how much a baby costs??? Do you have a job??? Do you know how much daycare is??? If your boyfriend is in jail...than I'm thinking you guys are NOT READY to be having children!!! For god's sake you both are still kids!!! Enjoy being a teenager...don't rush into being an adult. Once you have a baby you won't be able to just go out when ever you want. You wont be able to do all the things that "normal" teens your age do!!! Please re-think having a baby!!! Wait until you are really ready!!!
2007-01-16 12:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mandi 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK
l know you want to help out your boyfriend but having a baby will not do anything.
The judge is not going to release your boyfriend just because he has a baby on the way. HELLO, why do you think women give birth in jail? Because the Judge did not let them out.
Obviously neither one of you are prepared or even smart enough to bring a child into this world. You are not pregnant and you are not having a miscarriage. YOUR HAVING A PERIOD!!!!
Your body will continue to throw you curve balls when it comes to your period. You are still young and it is working itself out.
I will be praying for you and the rest of mankind tonight. I PRAY YOU SEE THE LIGHT AND FINISH SCHOOL, DUMP YOUR LOSER OF A BOYFRIEND AND A MAKE SOMETHING OF YOURSELF.
2007-01-17 20:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by daisyhuff4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't want to bag on you, but seriously THINK BEFORE you act.
Anyway you need to do some research into How to Get Pregnant, cause you kind of got it all wrong IF your cycles are 28 days being eg you started your period on the 1st Jan (The first day of your period not the last) than you should ovulate around the 14th of Jan so to have a good chance of getting pregnant you should have sex around The 10Th,12Th, 14Th, 16Th, 18th note that it is every second day! you don't want a low sperm count by doing it every day! (your period would than be due on the 28th Jan).
Also many other factor can effect you cycle, stress for one!
please note I am not encouraging you do to this just thought you should understand the process better.
And getting pregnant doesn't always happen as easily as you might think, I doesn't mean there is anything wrong. it is all about timing and good health helps to!
2007-01-16 12:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by mumma_2_4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chances are that you are not pregnant....what in the world would you want to have a baby for at 16 anyway???? Do you think that your boyfriend whom at the age of 16 and in jail is going to be a good daddy?? I am a single mom of a 2yr old and 36 weeks pregnant at 21! Trust me when I tell you, that you do not want to have a baby this early in life!! Go to college, I would die to go back....get a job and not a guy who will be in and out of jail....then have a baby!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 12:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by jule9104 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take the test to be sure if you are pregnant or not - then my best advice which you are not going to like is that if you are not pregnant STOP TRYING you are 16 graduate high school and WAIT. go to college get and education and a good career that way you can PROVIDE for your child in the way that you will want to . Otherwise you are going to end up working as a grocery clerk for minmum wage not knowing how you are going to feed your child much less pay for karate class.
2007-01-16 12:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by squiggles7847 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you continue to bleed bright red blood, I would see a doctor ASAP. You could be pregnant, since you have been having unprotected sex! But hopefully not, especially since he is going to jail. He won't be much help to you there! It is hard enough for two adults to raise a child well....
Good luck!
2007-01-16 12:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by Em 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have fun explaining to the child why you will be raising it on welfare and daddy wont be around much because he'll be in and out of jail for the rest of its life.
Oh, and enjoy sucking your parents dry, they raised you, so why not have them pay for and raise your kids too? It'll be fun! Maybe you'll get to raise your childrens kids when they turn sixteen and sleep with a jailbird.
2007-01-16 12:38:47 · answer #11 · answered by Sugarshots 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋