I need love...please give!?
I don't know why, but lately I'v been thinking too much about life-and my future...I want to get this man out of my head-because I know I don't have feelings for him that way...but lately...ever since I became buddies with him via myspace I can't get him out of my head...I knew him before I added him-just didn't want to add him-might get attached. I guess I want to get to know hias a friend, but I want him to make the first move, so he won't think I like him that way-I did love him...I have no feelings for him like that now. I also know, I can just let nature take it's course-to be frank I can live without his compnay-but wtf...I just am afraid to check my messages, cuz I secretly wish it was him...and I also know it won't be unless I go for it-but I'm not ready....as a friend to make the frienship move 1st. I'm so confused and fustrated. Please give me some love. ..and advice
2007-01-16 12:14:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you're kidding yourself, its obvious from your choice of words that you DO have feelings for this guy. be honest and tell him what you think. dont play that game about "whose gonna make the first move". it gets really hard on us guys when women always wait for us to "make the first move". I, for one, really find it sexy and attractive when a girl knows what she wants and isnt afraid to tell me about it. I'm in a very wonderful relationship right now with a girl who came up to me one day and told me exactly what she felt, i was so flattered and turned-on. her directness was really a breath of fresh air. and I really find it attractive when a woman has confidence in her own desires. shes very sexy, very confident, and very honest, and i totally love her! go for it
2007-01-16 12:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by mickey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do whats in you heart. If you follow that you'll never go wrong.Life is too short to doubt your self. Why wouldn't you make the first move? If you wanted to be with him or wanted to get to know him on that level don't deny your self that . Good luck and hope you catch your man.
2007-01-16 20:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by bwaaaare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry baby..I feel for you..
But have you ever met this person? you dont know him really do you (if you have not met him). I think your in a rutt, and need company...someone to chat with and converse...and, you miss this..from him..this is why you check your messages...you are lonely..well...sweetie your in the right place...many people care here, and are very friendly, and, will give you a listening ear...and help you...along the way...afterall, we all need someone dont we?
you just hold on ...and, wait for the responses...your going to get alot of people responding who do care....!!!!
fondly,
2007-01-16 20:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Winters child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋