Wife claim she was sexual abuse since the age of 16 years old, by her mother’s boyfriend. She said that when she came back home from services, he continue asking for sex from her. She said that she charged him money for sex, until her mother found them together having sex. She told me this right after we got married; she advised that I might leave her what she told me. I just found out that her real mother past away right after we graduated from high school. The mother she calling is really her aunt. When we were signing on a new car, she just got up and when called an old boy friend I never meet since we have been married, who lived in another state, and asked him for a loan. After awhile we when to the state to visit family and found out by her sister that she told him she was in town and he wanted to see her, she got upset that she told him she was in town. I do not know if I can trust her. Her mood changed every day. She happy in the morning then she happy and never realized she was depressed 2 hours ago
2007-01-16 12:03:43 · 8 answers · asked by blkngd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately, your wife is up to no good. You cannot trust anything she says or does. Consider divorce.
Hopefullly there are no children involved.
2007-01-16 12:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife sounds like she is taking a lot of baggage with her from the past. Alot of times people who have been sexually abuse suffer from clinical depression when they become an adult. They also have many problems with commitments and being loyal. It sounds like she may need to contact a therapist or counselor and start seeing someone. I wish you the best of luck in your marriage, but see if you can convience her to go talk with someone.
2007-01-16 12:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but I found it odd the way you worded you question...wife claim? You should stick by your wife... most people just don't make up stuff like that... Being sexually abused is some thing that messes up a women's very being. Most woman don't find to many people with whom they can trust to tell the whole story to... If she has never talked to a professional then volunteer to go with her so that she can get some one to help her to deal with all the gilt and anger...
Support her and love her..
2007-01-16 12:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what the deal with is with your wife but she is messed up royaly. She may have a mental disorder or there is the possibility that she plays everyone she knows with sex to get what she wants. If you want to save your relationship I would ask her to go to counselling, tell her your problems with her behaviour and if she wants to save the marriage she is going to have to change her ways. If she has a mental problem it can be fixed with therapy and or drugs, I know most people don't like hearing that but what would you rather have, a controlled wife, or the one you have now. Just have a real heart to heart with her and find out if she even wants to save the relationship. Good luck
2007-01-16 12:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs some counseling and or medication. You can't really call it abuse if you were charging for your services. She has erratic behavior, and you better watch out for that.
2007-01-16 12:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have no idea who your married too.. She has no idea what the truth is either.You two need some counsiling.
2007-01-16 12:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Meemi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to talk this over with her with a marriage counselor.
2007-01-16 12:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?
2007-01-16 12:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋