me & my ex have a baby on the way she broke up wit me a couple months after we found out
not long after that she started talkin to guy she was datin before me she talked to him everyday new years night he was over there and so was i he and her stayed up stairs me & her brother, mom, dad stayed down after he left she came down & sat beside me & talked to me for a long time i went to sleep left there about one that next evenin her brother called & wanted me to come over so i did while i was over there she sat down wit me again a started sayin that she was glad he came over cause it made her relize why she broke up wir him blah blah any ways before i left she said she loved me and still cared for me the other day i was at the store beside where she worked & i saw him go in there for bout half an hour she hasnt been talkin to me much and she mad at me sometimes & nice sometimes idk i cant get over her & i want o know if she is still talks to him what yall think bout the whole situation
2007-01-16 12:03:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how can i find out without makin her think i dont trust her i really love her
2007-01-16 12:04:05 · update #1
what woman has a man, gets pregnant by him ,then breaks up with him shortly afterward, then attempts to start a new relationship with a former boyfriend while carrying a child? either this woman is very confused in life, or has some serious hormonal fluxuations. i dont know how stable she was before the pregnancy, but her actions are out of line. even if she was no longer in love with you, most women i know would not consider pregnancy the time to start a new romantic relationship.she is very confused,and while i would not suggest that you act too aggressively toward her, i do believe you have a right to some answers. give her space, but let her know that you feel she is not behaving in a manner that is rational, and she should concentrate on the child, and not a previous boyfriend. he has no business being in her life right now. you need to be there for your child,even if she doesnt want a romantic relationship with you at this time.
2007-01-16 12:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are but you sound young.... You need to work on talking with her about all of this... You two are going to be having a baby.. There is going to be many more bigger things to worry about.. If she has never cheated on you in the past then you need to learn to trust her...You can not control the other boys actions.. People like to start things some times you may read a little to much into a situation.. If I was you I would put my energy in figuring out how you two are going to raise the baby...
I wish the both of you the best...
2007-01-16 12:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you confront the guy and ask hI'm what the go is . im not sure if you guys are still together its hard to work out from your description but if you r then u have a right to be upset that shes spending so much time with him . and u can just say i luv u and i trust u but im not comfortable with u spending this time with your x and if she loves u then she should respect that.
2007-01-16 12:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by trcyhanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get some time with her to talk. It would be best to work things through especially since you have the wellbeing of your child to consider.
2007-01-16 12:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Clare C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know that this is about trust but i think honesty, you both will be parents together i think it is best that you to do your best to remain friendly no matter what , i would question why you want to know? if it is over then i think you need to find a way to be her friend for the baby's sake
2007-01-16 12:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to find out? She broke up with you. It's decided, and there's nothing you can do to change her mind. Only she can change her mind, and I have never reconciled with an ex and had it turn out to be a good thing, so I have developed a "one person per lifetime" rule.
2007-01-16 12:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you even considered the other guy may be the father of her baby?
2007-01-16 12:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you know what get over it okay grow up!! get another boyfriend that wants a baby
2007-01-16 12:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by bokiera97wink 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry guy.....i feel sad for you but if she wants to be with him, theres not much you can do!
2007-01-16 15:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋