I met this girl from Calgary, Canada in college about 4 years ago and we became good friends but then she had to leave and go back home and we kept in touch on and off thru the years but then 2 yrs ago we had a falling out and that really, really hurt, but then one night about 8 months ago out of the blue she started talking to me and apologized to me and we chatted for about 2 months but then they became less and less and I honestly wondered if we were still friends but then I called her on Christmas and everything seemed fine. For several years I've been wanting to go back to school and I now have the chance to do that in Calgary. If I don't go I know I'll miss my opportunity to get to where I want to go career wise and if I saw this girl then it'd be awesome, but I'm afraid it might be seen as "this guy is stalking me" (which I'm not) I have the chance to further my career AND be around her again I just don't want to lose what fragile friendship I already have with her.What do I do?
2007-01-16 11:43:07 · 1 answers · asked by blountb572003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When you go back to school, say Hi but don't be too forward with her. You can talk to her, but don't push it. Maybe she will spend time with you, maybe not. She sounds okay with at least casual contact.
2007-01-16 11:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋