2007-01-16 10:48:35 · 7 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because even if you had a nasty breakup it is always easier to remember them during the good times of your relationship. and maybe he is a really good guy in general, just not for you. its better that you don't dislike him because you always want to keep in good terms with people no matter how bad things got between the two of you. don't loose a friend over it.
2007-01-16 11:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by play hard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a good person. DON'T let anyone tell you otherwise honey. It takes a very big person to let go of the animosity and rise above the anger that led to the divorce.
Be grateful for the gift you have, not many people can say that. You'll be better for it in the long run. Now if only there were more people like you in this world, we'd be in a much happier state.
2007-01-16 22:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have moved on and don't care so much anymore? Because you have a life? Because you know that you can always find someone better, while he's left in the dust?
Don't know about you, these were my reasons for never disliking any one of my ex's.
2007-01-16 18:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either of the following:
A. You haven't had enough time to dislike them.
B. You have had enough time to get past disliking them.
If you dumped them, then you might have gone onto B because you were already at A.
If they dumped you, and you haven't at least become highly disappointed in them (there were promises broken, bad behavior, etc), then dislike will show up soon enough, and then you'll get past that too if you want to.
2007-01-16 18:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got over the hurt, did what u had to do grief wise and moved on, because u accepted it as it was, never questioned why, so what didn't kill u made u stronger and more at peace with yourself. but also most importantly u forgave him for whatever caused the divorce.
2007-01-16 18:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because as Jerry Lewis put it, "You always love your family, but, sometimes you don't like them". So much truth to that isn't it. Mmm
2007-01-16 18:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you can forgive your partner, maybe because you have the love of God in you and dont realise it.....if you want to be sure....ask Jesus into your heart, He loves you and wants to lead your life....God bless ya
2007-01-16 18:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋