quit trying to change us and let us do our thing....and give a little more effort in the bedroom too...that helps keep us happy ....just quit trying to analyze us so much!!! we are men....!
2007-01-16 10:41:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmmm....ever since the first couple men have been perplexed. Women probably have too...but I am not a woman, so I can only speak for my own gender. Think about it...is the 'change' she's trying to make in you something that you really should change? Chances are it is. Women and men were designed to compliment each other's weak points...men are supposed to love our women.... What on Earth does that mean? Listen to her, give her affection the way she enjoys it...not just to get your own few seconds of arousal... Those soft and tender women we allow to be in our lives deserve to be loved, and then perhaps, they will respect our moments when we need to be with other guys, or alone. When you make a decision to be with a woman, and you intend to be serious, that is a permanent part of your life... According to the Bible, a man and a woman are to leave their parents, and be as one flesh...Man, be willing to sacrifice your life for your woman. Adam called the first one Woman because he was attracted to her...like when you see someone really hot...(j/k). Evil is not spelled Evel...women are not evil...unless we make them that way.
2007-01-17 13:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jalapinomex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women try to change their men, I let my husband be a man and he gives me the same respect. It's all about respect unless you're doing something stupid like abusing your wife or cheating or gambling away your kids college fund. Otherwise, to all women reading this. Stop analyzing your man, he's a man and deserves to be treated like a man. If you have a "GOOD MAN" let him be a man and definitely give more effort in the bedroom. Women we deserve pleasure and a great time during the bedroom antics. Hope my message to women helps.
2007-01-16 18:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Alaska Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young to ask this. Men do what men do but any mature man realizes that one must compromise a bit with women. The usual mistake that guys make is "I want to do what I want to do". Instead be a bit more romantic and then you shall be able to do what you wish. More in the bedroom? Women are more mentally driven and romance is the way to go. It is the way it is.
When you are a man you will know..... give a thoughtful gift or flowers for no special reason. Talk and listen. Even if you don't feel like it. But as I said you will know this once you are older.
2007-01-16 18:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by jackson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And we are women!!! Maybe if MEN didn't think only of themselves so much and they actually took the time to listen to us and respect us then we wouldnt need to change you at all.
And as far as the bedroom goes....if ur lady ain't puttin in the effort then you might want to think about the last time she had 3 or 4 back to back O's...cuz if you don't know how to properly work the machinerey, then why should we put forth any effort???? Seriously!?!?
2007-01-16 18:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same goes for men...Quit trying to change us or trying to analyze us, and GIVE A LITTLE MORE EFFORT IN THE BEDROOM...btw We're NOT responsible for YOUR happiness. If YOU are unhappy that is YOUR problem and YOU have to look inside yourself to find out why YOU are not happy. No one else is repsponsible for making YOU Happy. Quit trying to analyze (understand) us WE ARE WOMEN...
2007-01-17 02:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop complaining so much, get on top once in a while, and lets us get drunk sometimes without acting like we committed a mortal sin!
Oh! And just because we haven't bought a huge mansion by the time we're 40 doesn't mean we're a failure in life. And try to talk to ex husbands without using the line 'You're pathetic' every 10 seconds.
2007-01-16 18:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.......but will you quit pouting when you don't get your way.....will you make sure we have a good time in the bedroom too instead of how much you are getting....Will you quit "not talking" and "clamming up"....
How about instead of blaming we all just start talking not yelling or fighting but talking more....
A little give and take on both ends sure makes for a better world...
2007-01-16 18:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by flameinpueblo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha!ha!ha! You may as well turn gay and marry a man if you think a woman isnt going to try to change you.
In fact if it wasnt for the sex part I might be able to be gay. It would be like hanging out with all your friends then.
2007-01-16 19:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me man you woman HAHAHHHA
Sorry, that is so cliche and old school. We are no longer in the era of yes dear no dear what would you like for dinner. Our feelings matter also and relationships are give and take. Do you give your significant other all that you are asking for? Try it you may be surprised.
2007-01-16 23:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by tammy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe if our men respected our wishes as women alil' more then we might put out in bed more! Not ALL women do that!
2007-01-16 18:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by So you think you know me!? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋