Why would a man want to marry when it is so much fun being single?

Question

I can't understand how a man would want the same old woman forever? NO WAY! too much to play out there....and dont give me this business about love either.....most of you men are cheating and most married ladies cheat too....I know, cause married women hit on me all the time.

Answer 1

You get more legal benefits and tax cuts when you are married-duh!!!!Oh yea-when you are 60 and everything starts to sag, you'll gonna wish you have some that can look past that and love ya.

Answer 2

Both types of men use and abuse substances and take toxic chemicals (pharma, junk food, general consumer goods) this is bad when it comes to being responsible. Single men don't have to worry about responsibility, but they get really lonely. They're only high is sex, and not relationship or any bond. Married men that you describe, can't handle the responsibility due to the above chemicals and stuff. Those E numbers really make one's head screwy. On top of that, if you want a full answer to that, study relationships. And that's relationships in different environments, cultures, religions, and ages. By the way, one woman is good enough for most (detoxed) men. Especially if she knows what to do while in that relationship.

Answer 3

The fact is, men do not read minds. One of the biggest issues in many relationships is lack of communication, in and out of the bedroom. Was that a "good" moan, or a "move your hand to the left" moan?

What would you do if you asked your partner, "Does that feel good" and she said "No"? Even if you recovered from the blow to your ego and were still conscious, even if she was still in the mood, what would you do then?

What if her answer was, "I don't know", the possibilities are endless in how to respond to that. The odds for success are not very good.

If she said : "Yes", would you know beyond the shadow of a doubt what it was you were doing that pleased her? Would you feel confident that you could do it again the next time? Or are you simply left wondering, was it the pressure, the speed, or the length of my stroke? You still don't have much information to go on. The best you can do is start guessing again.

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Answer 4

because when you are the slimy old guy at the bar dancing by yourself hitting on the 20 something girls, while they are laughing at you behind your back, the married men, will have a partner, companion, children, grandchildren and family who love them very much, and take care of them in the good times and bad. The best part they wouldnt have been paying child support to 5 different women for the past 20 years.... .LOL

Answer 5

Hay Mr J Pants,

You may be young now but you will be old one day. Do you think you can hit the clubs when your 70, no sir you will be at home in your rocking chair nursing a bad knee, who do you have to talk to then when all your friends might have passed before you. I tell you what I think a lot of guys don't think about their future. I mean your looking at the old celebs out there with young girls hanging of their arms, unless yo can earn millions then I don't like your chances later in life. I'm not an old woman writing this I'm 27 and not fat and ugly either.

Answer 6

I'm 38 and as a woman I felt like that too and I know many people who felt like that in their 20's, men and women, but now in your late 30's the amount of single people to fool around with goes down considerably, and you have to spend time with people who are cruel and cold enough to CHEAT on their spouses, (that's pretty low) but sometimes that's all that's left by the time youre in your 30's. Most men I know in their late 30's early 40's are very lonely right now. Not all of them of course, some are still young looking and acting and happy. Some people don't ever want to settle down, and maybe youre one of them, nothing wrong with that. But others want a stability and want true love as opposed to just someone to hang out with who wouldn't love them through thick and thin.

Answer 7

It sounds like you've never been in love and if someone says they are in love and still cheat they don't know what love is - they are not really in love.

I've had a few guys in love with me and I know these guys would have given up everything to be with me - I am sure they would have treated me well, I just couldn't love them. Just wait until some lady out there sweeps you off your feet and you'll be thinking about nothing else.

Unless you're gay, there will come a time when you'll be willing to sell your soul to spend your life with that special someone.

Answer 8

I used to think that but at 30 I'm starting to get a few grey hairs and if you've seen the Michael Caine film Alfie you'll be reminded that there comes a time when you'll be replaced by a younger stud. Love endures even as the flesh becomes less attractive so I'm looking for love (even with occassional cheating if that is the reality you speak of).

Answer 9

That's why you are single because you know nothing of
being married. Having experienced it going on 20yrs I
would not trade being married for anything as I have one
woman that satisfies my every need and you need a
continous flow of women and still have not found the right
one yet that is why you are still single. So go ahead and
party harty with several while I can do it with just one.

Answer 10

i READ EVERY ONES ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION AND THE ONLY THING I CAN SAY IS AGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT BE LIVE ME I,M 50 AND I DATE WOMEN WHO ARE 23-55 SO AGE HAS NOTHING THE THING IS NO ONE WANTS TO BE ALONE ALL THERE LIFE BUT MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE AND THAT IS OK IF YOU STAY SINGLE BUT WHY WOULD I MARRY A WOMAN AND THEN CHEAT ON HER AND 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 THAT IS WHAT WILL HAPPEN OR SHE WILL CHEAT ON ME THAT IS JUST THE WAY IT IS I DON,T CARE HOW GOOD LOOKING YOU ARE OR HOW GREAT OF A LOVER HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE WHEN A PERSON IS GOING TO CHEAT THEREIS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT

Answer 11

Well everyone has their own opinion about marriage. We have people like you who think it is waste of time, that life is just too short to waste it being with one person. Than there are others who pray for God to send them
someone who loves them that they can spend the rest of their lives with. Marriage isn't better it's just different. For people like you, you'll never be satisfied. You'll go from girl to girl, club to club. Don't worry for people like you, eventually it'll get empty. Or maybe you'll turn out like me and God will teach you a lesson. I believed that marriage was a prison, something that I never wanted to get involved with. Never wanted to fall in love, or find someone who would make me feel that way. I did. I was wrong. Marriage isn't just about love and it isn't for everyone. But if you're the kind of person who is always sleeping around than you need to be married. You're getting something from other women that you should be getting from your wife. Good luck with whatever.