cuz they r always so tight and don't really want to let anyone in their group or anything. I just realize 1 of my old friends is REALLY cliny so i have been gradually moving away from her and moving onto other people, but it seems like i'm moving away from her too fast or the people i'm trying to get to know keep locking me out and stuff. I don't just want to be with them all the time, but they seem like my type and i am REALLY close friends with one of them named Kaci Hoskins, but the others just act like i'm a waste of time. I know that they don't mind sharing her but i feel like i want more of a relationship w/ the rest of them. Sometimes i get really hurt cuz they'll tell me how nice i am and how they would really like to get to know me better (Which litterally makes me run to the bathroom and cry tears of JOY!!!) but then when they hear secrets i don't get to listen to any of them and when somebody starts a rumor about me they believe it, except kaci! I need help...w/ this all!
2007-01-16 10:05:11 · 4 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
These are not the kinds of friends that you want. They will not really care about you the way that you will care about them. Friends just like boys will dissapoint you many times in life. The most important thing to remember is that family should be your #1. Family will be there for you wayy before your friends will. The thing is that the people that you want to be your friends will just cause you alot of hurt in the end. You need to find friends that are really interested in the person you are and that do not spread rumors or act like you are invisible somtimes. Please do not be friends with these people, it is not good. Right now you just want to be accepted, sometimes is pays to not be accepted. You will figure it out when you get older, but right now just remember to take the right advice and do not be friends with these people. I am not saying to hate them or ignore them flat out, but just do not give them any real attention. It is not important whether these people like you or not, it will not matter to you later on in life, you will look back at this situation and laugh at your self for being so preoccupied with it!
2007-01-16 10:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by someone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they believe rumors and spread gossip, why would you want these type of people as your friends? I would rather have a clingy friend than a shallow one, so stick to the friend(s) you have and don't try too hard to make new ones because the girls you are describing don't seem worth your time.
2007-01-16 10:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I did we had someone run back and forth for(questions answers)then they asked do we wont to be friends.We gave it a try.Then it turned out they weren't really are friends but that's how we joined a group.
2007-01-16 10:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by *Sabrina* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same w/ me but it seems easier for you than for me...we barely even say hi in the halls..just keep hanging out and it will happen on its own.
2007-01-16 10:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋