I'm in the tenth grade. I'm really getting mad at this girl that we will call Anna. Anna is always trying to put me down in some way. She always brags about her money and clothes. She tells me about how all the boys want to get in her pants ( because she is easy). She calls me ugly when shes the plainest girl on the planet. I'm never allowed to be in a bad mood around her. If she snaps its okay but if I do she says I can make your life friggin miserable. During gym class she will come up and be close to kicking me in the face. She thinks shes the best at everything like volleyball. She thinks shes popular ( she is one of the most hated people). I'm really sick of her attitute. I'm not going to be her lackey anymore. I'm very tired of it. What should I do. She whispers stuff to this other girl I'll call Jana. Jana shrugs like she doesn't even care about what Anna says. I don't even to listen to half the stuff she says. I just either humor her or tune her out. She was being annoying so I
2007-01-16 10:04:48 · 15 answers · asked by shiningstars 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
called her a pain in the ***. She was like don't call me that or I'll punch her face. She is always saying how small she is how everyone is yelling at her to pick up weight. Likes shes proud to be underweight. i'm so sick of her bragging it doesn't make her any better then anyone. I listen to her problems and if I tell her something about mine she says suck it up!
2007-01-16 10:06:31 · update #1
Sorry meant she said shed punch me in the face
2007-01-16 10:08:17 · update #2
No I'm not a lesbian so I don't partake in those activites. Shes about 5'1 and I'm 5'3 1'2.
2007-01-16 10:11:23 · update #3
The only reason I'm friends with her is so she doesn't spread evil things about me. I don't even consider her a friend. We don't talk or hang out ouside of school. I never confide in her.
2007-01-16 10:13:20 · update #4
I don't partake in an of her stupid takes for attention. I don't have sex, drink, brag about clothes or money, threaten people or make fun of anyone.
2007-01-16 10:15:13 · update #5
I also wen through this in High school. The only thing you can do is start to slowly break away from her. When she starts spreading rumors aroung about you. Just remind them who the sorce is. If she is as hated as you say then no one will believe an ounce of what she said. Just show people that what she is saying isn't getting to you and it will all blow over in a couple days. There will be something else that will happen and people will forget. Just make sure you start making new friends so they know what you are really like.
2007-01-16 11:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by diana h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So dump her. Get as far away from her as you can. Just ignore her, and hope she'll go away.
If not, don't tolerate any more of her crap. And if she actually does hit you...make sure you're around people who will back you up, for starters, like a teacher.
Or hit her back, and beat the living crap out of her. If she's that small, you should be able to do some damage. I'm not advocating violence, but that seems to be the only way she'll listen.
If not, make sure those people I told you about are around, and get her expelled.
2007-01-16 10:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Paige D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance from her. There is something wrong with her self-esteem, that's why she keeps knocking people down and trying to bring herself up. She's easy so that she can get the boy's attention. Feel sorry for her. If you want to continue your friendship with her, let her know that what she's doing only makes her look bad. If she still gives you attitude, drop her. Who cares what she says if she's one of the most hated people in your school. Most people who try to bring others down, do it because they feel like they need to be brought up.
2007-01-16 10:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need negativity in your life. If it doesn't feel good being in her company... don't. Life's too short to put up with that crap.
It sounds like she is a very insecure person, always looking for a compliment or attention. You're right, it's not a good thing for all the boys to want to get into your pants, and it's not good to be underweight.
It sounds like you know what's best for you... you just need to go for it.
2007-01-16 10:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a girl at my school just like her. You just need to dump that lame friend and if she continues her lame acts you gon have to beat her @ss! But let her hit u first so u won't get in trouble. That's what happen to the girl at my school she don't think she Ms. Everything now.
2007-01-16 11:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by ChrisBrownBabyGirl93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you should really just confront her to her face or when she trys to hit you, block her or hit her back real hard so she will learn her lesson. if she's talking sh*t about you, just ignore her, and eventually she will get sick of teasing you. she may think highly of herself, but she's not. just because she thinks your this and that, it doesnt make you a lesser person. stop worrying about what she says, just enjoy life! she's not worth it.
2007-01-16 10:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you friends with her. Avoid her and stop hanging around her. Find some new friends that you actually like!
2007-01-16 10:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do something about it. If she even says she is going to do something to you, like punching and kicking, tell her she can. She will only get in trouble and probably get suspended. Stand up to her. Do something. Your the one being the lackey.
- Bride
2007-01-16 10:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're taller by two and a half inches. Grab a baseball bat.
2007-01-16 10:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by ZZ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand up to her, that is the only way she is going to stop
2007-01-16 10:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by amyw7313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋