is a cancerian and an aquarian compatible in a relationship?

Answer 1

No! They'll both be attractive to each other at first because they're both warm & charming, but soon they'll realize they might as well be on other sides of the universe. Aquarius will hurt Cancers feelings with their blunt opinions & criticism (a horrible offense in our eyes), but since Aquarius doesn't deal with life emotionally (air signs are intellectual), they won't even realize it. Cancer will respond with what they see as equally cruel remarks to retaliate, & Aquarius will REALLY be hurt. Aquarius doesn't want to stay home or develop emotional bonds while cancer thrives on the opposite. They're both stubborn & proud, eventually they will go separate ways, because Aquarius will get tired of Cancer's clinginess & jealousy (Cancer might want to stay in the relationship even though it's only a struggle), besides, at best Aquarius just wants a friend with benefits, or at least more space than Cancer will be willing to give. After the initial charms & attraction, they probably won't even last as friends.

You could give it a try, but Aquarius will probably need to develop some empathy & Cancer will have to learn to mellow out. It might be easier just to find Cancer a water sign or a Taurus & Aquarius a nice Gemini or Libra. I agree with Air2477, there's plenty of people out there & always someone compatible for someone else, though, I guess that anyone you go will require sacrifices be made...

Answer 2

Cancer + Aquarius

Water + Air = Rain

The freedom-loving and independent Aquarian is not in the same kettle of fish as you. You could find this a difficult match to handle. It’s hard to tie down a wilful Aquarian to a stable routine. Even your best emotional reasoning won’t budge an Aquarian.
The Aquarian needs to explore all of the highways and byways of life before making a firm commitment to someone, and if you’re the more conservative and traditional type of Cancerian, you could be waiting an awfully long time till this exploration is over and your needs take centre stage.
This combination brings into play the lunar vibrations of Cancer and the Uranian element of Aquarius — together, these produce a very electric and often high-strung combination.
Aquarius will leave you up in the air about where you stand, particularly in relation to the emotional status quo. And can you tie them down? Absolutely not! Still, if you’re prepared to venture forth and explore life with an Aquarian, you may have lots of exhilarating adventures.
If the Aquarian can settle down just enough to let your lunar vibrations soothe their soul, you may be able to pull the two of you closer together. But there will be continuing difficulty: you need deep and abiding family relationships, and the Aquarian needs freedom.
A passionate, if not spasmodic, sexual relationship between the two of you is likely. The Aquarian’s ‘hippie’ approach to sex is a little too way out for you, and may not fulfil you, but at least you will have a few fireworks!
Those born between 21 January and 30 January will bring you trouble. The excitement you feel at the start could eventually turn into exhaustion and exasperation. There’s nothing settled about them. They seek out extreme excitement — they like to be daredevils — and unpredictability is their middle name; this is not usually your cup of tea.
The hectic schedule of Aquarians born between 31 January and 8 February may overpower you. These people are constantly on the go, and often their work involves lots of travel. If you enjoy travelling, you can salvage this relationship by joining in the adventure of overseas trips with them. In the extreme, they may relocate. You might have to choose between living in a place you know well, and uprooting yourself to go somewhere completely different.
You’ll identify with — and fall in love with — those born between 9 February and 18 February. You’ll have great friendships with these people; their zaniness is attractive, in a weird and wonderful way — they’re just different enough. They are also far more likely than other Aquarians to have relatively settled lifestyles. This gives you the best of both worlds – excitement and a bit of stability.

Answer 3

I am a Cancer (7/15/82) and dated an Aquarius (1/19/79) long term for two years. I wound up not getting enough loving or caring. He was more interested in earning his degree and his Mustang than spending quality time together. I was more interested in developing the relationship. He even suggested separate bedrooms at one point because our schedules were so different, bedtime was the only time we were ever together! Plus we'd have to compete for family time during the holidays instead of compromising. Aquarians are usually convinced that they are right and Cancerians usually give in. Even I could only GIVE so much. I finally gave him a choice.

Do yourself a favor and avoid this coupling. Aquarius and Cancer are just on two different wavelengths.

Answer 4

Cancer and Aquarius

When you meet a quirky Aquarian it can be love at first sight, for the sexual attraction is intense. This fascination is partly due to the very different ways in which you each approach the world. Aquarius is intellectually adventurous, emotionally detached and fairly self-contained. Cancer is creative, yet deeply emotional and quite tender at heart, beneath that legendary shell. Your sensuality and romantic imagination will intrigue the Water Bearer, whose sexual fires are stoked by your willingness to enjoy the excitement of those unconventional Aquarian appetites.

Cardinal Cancer, a Water Sign, is ruled by the changing Moon, while unconventional Aquarius, an Air Sign, is ruled by structured Saturn and offbeat Uranus. Saturn is intellectual, cool and structured, while the Moon is nurturing, inward-looking and growth-oriented. This mixture, when put in a structured goal-directed environment, can be very productive, due to your canny creativity and motivated emotional power, combined with the Water Bearer's lateral thinking and ability to maintain a steady approach. The combination of nurtured growth and structured development and of masculine and feminine energy is potentially rewarding, but you'll need to develop mutual goals and work together on projects that you can share, so that the energies can be put to work instead of degenerating into jealousy and restlessness.

The Water Bearer's need for freedom and independence can be quite threatening, for stability and security are high on your list of needs. Aquarius, who is fundamentally a lone wolf, likes to spend plenty of time alone to explore the mental avenues so dear to that Sign. To be fair, your emotional nature, which is both demonstrative and possessive can imperil this independence and hem in the Water Bearer, who will then retreat to an ivory tower, if not actually packing up and moving to Katmandu.

You need emotional closeness, but Aquarius fears this kind of intimacy. If you love an Aquarian, you'll need to modify your demands if you want to keep the relationship alive.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

i am a cancerian went out with an aquarian and sexually we were compatible but otherwise not. just see where your heart takes you

Answer 7

i`m an aquarian and was married to a cancer (took me 14 years to find out we was`nt compatable tho) work that out and you have your answer

Answer 8

Compatibility tests from horoscope signs aren't real.

Its just how much you can put up with & if the other person can put up with you. No relationship is more than half baked.

Answer 9

yes they are...I am a cancer...my bf is aquarius..I also have many aquarian friends...We get very well with each other

Answer 10

LET ME CHECK MY CHRYSTAL BALL!!!!!!.................... I SEE THAT CANCER+ AQUARIUS= A HORRIBLE MATCH CANCER STAYS TO THE GROUND AND AQUARIUS GOES OUT AND PLAYS CANCER IS A RAINY DAY MOVIE AQUARIUS IS A SUMMER BLOCKBUSTER IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN YOU TWO AREN'T GOOD FOR EACHOTHER YOU CAN TRY BUT MY CRYSTAL BALL NEVER LIES ABOUT THE STARS, MOON, AND PLANETS OR ASTROLOGY!!!!!!!!!