im 14 accidetally got pegnet and my parents dont know and i cant drive yet so i dont know how to learn about giving birth and i need help please
2007-01-16 10:03:18 · 34 answers · asked by hottestcheerleader 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im 3 months and need sum one to talk to or sumthing other than parents
2007-01-16 10:44:49 · update #1
ive been wearing baggie clothing and that has helped my parents not to notice
2007-01-16 10:56:50 · update #2
we used a condom
2007-01-16 11:05:55 · update #3
i wish there was some way to kill the baby
2007-01-16 11:28:39 · update #4
You will be ok! You need to tell your parents!!! If you can not tell them then tell someone who can tell them or help you tell them!!!
I was 15 and my mom worked at a doctors office so she was the one who found out before I did! It was a bit hard but I finished school and Im doing great now! You will be ok there is plenty of people out there to help you learn what to do next! You need to let someone know now so you can take charge and get ya a doctor and find out how that baby is doing! Good Luck Sweetie!!
2007-01-16 10:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK by waiting 3 months, you have eliminated one of your options. But you still have 2 options...keep it or give it up for adoption. Either way means having the kid and sooner or later mom and dad will find out. So you might as well tell them now. You need help and they are the right ones to give it to you. They will also want to know who the father is...so they can talk to his parents.... both sets of parents should be involved... it took two to make the baby, so it should take two to make the decisions, with the parents help. Yes they will be disappointed but not as much as they will be if you don't go to them... they love you.
2007-01-16 11:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents. You need prenatal care and you can't get that without a doctor. It may seem easiest to hide it and not say anything but you got pregnant by having unprotected sex and it is your (and the boy's) fault. This is no longer about you, it is about the baby. Tell your parents and get to the doctor as soon as possilbe. This baby deserves the best chance of living that you can give it.
2007-01-16 11:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by busemomme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accidentaly, nope. Tell your parents, you need to tell them. You also need to go to an OB/GYN for prenatal check ups so that the baby is okay. If you choose not to have the child, you still need to talk to a doctor about your choices. Whatever you do, you're a minor, you need parental consent for the majority of options out there.
2007-01-16 10:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your parents sooner or later cause they will find out you can also try going to a planned parent hood they will help you with anything you want to know you can try catching a bus if you dont know how to take the bus go to there website and find out which bus goes there or if the guy who got you pregnant knows how to drive or can somehow get you there ask him
2007-01-16 10:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by just bored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should some how go to a doctor because 14 is a young age to get pregnant at. If I were you I would tell a parent or older sibling that u trust most! They can help you :-)
2007-01-16 10:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Just Ask :-) 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How can you accidently get pregnant? Anyway you don't need a birthing class to know how to give birth. All you do is take a big breath when the doctor tells you to push and push for 10 seconds real hard on your bottom. The doctor will count the 10 seconds and tell you when to stop. Then when he says push you take another big breath and push. You do that until the baby's head pops out. The doctor will tell you to stop at this point so he can get the mucus out of the baby's nose and mouth, gently grab the head and tell you to push really hard and the baby will come out.
2007-01-16 10:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You're not going to be able to hide it too much longer. And if you don't fess up pronto, it'll be too late to do anything about it. You wanted to be an adult and have sex, now you have to be an adult and deal with the consequences.
Edit: Yeah, it's probably too late for an abortion. Now you need to make sure that you're going to have a healthy baby. You really need to see a doctor.
2007-01-16 11:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by eri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to tell your parents so that they can help you get through this. I watched tlc they have alot of shows with woman giving birth and such. You also can get a book it's called "what to expect when you are expecting" maybe get one of you friends to try and get you one. Good Luck and pleae tell your parents soon.
2007-01-16 10:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by littleone84 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm...well if your parents are UNDERSTANDING and won't threw a rampage at you and kick you out of the house then tell them. the baby is not at fault at the mistakes of its parents, plus...anyone is scared at telling their parents, because you never know how they'll react. but if your parents do the shameful act of throwing you find help in organizations. in fact do it now, you need good plan for the child's future. I will tell my parents though.
2007-01-16 10:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by Silvara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋