my son is 8 months old and i found out that i'm pregnant again. i'm married but i just can't put myself through another pregnancy so soon physcially i can't seem to find advice on this subject. i very depressed about this whenever i think about it and i'm not happy at ALL! pls. leave serious answers
2007-01-16 09:55:58 · 9 answers · asked by teinegurl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Dear Friend. Hi well I am 25 yrs old. I had my 1st child when I was 18 and now I have 5. I'm married but I still know how you feel about the situation. Even though you may feel like your body can't handle it, it can:) your body has a way of knowing it's limits. If it didn't feel like you could handle it, it wouldn't be. I think alot of times people are even a little embarrassed thinking about what others will say when they become pregnant again so soon. As long as you and your spouse keep up the momentum you will get through it. I my self got pregnant with my 2nd child when my oldest was 9mos old. As far as your feelings of depression, I suffered from it and sought out help from my obgyn. They have some resources that can help. Try talking with your doctor and your spouse and let them know how you are feeling. If you would like to talk to me more send me a message @ brisess8@yahoo.com. Godbless
2007-01-16 10:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by brisess8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy!!! This is a new life you have inside you mistake or not mistake it is alleready there and there is only 2 things you can do 1.- decide to have him/ her or 2.- not have him/ her ... But this last one i will not recomend it, it is not your baby's fault that you concived him/ her.. The good thing is that you have a hubby , and you have a son that need from you too. Juts take care of what you eat, eat helathy and try to take walks that way you will have a healthy pregnancy and spend time with you rson and talk to him about his or her new baby brother or sister... Don't worry much think that both of your kids will grow up together and will have more fun and after giving birth just take care on not to conceive any more at least sooooon !!! GOOD LUCK and feel happy for having a new baby !!!! best wishes!!!
2007-01-16 10:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't get to stressed My daughters are 11 months apart in age the second pregnancy and delivery was very easy the children growing up did every thing together they had there fights but they also took care of each other if I had it to do over again I would It was great they are both pregnant together there babies are only going to be 10 weeks apart. good luck and enjoy I also was depressed when I found out I was pregnant with the second.
2007-01-16 10:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by what gives 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my oldest child was 2 1/2 I had a 14 month old, and a newborn baby. I felt the same way, my mother told me god wouldn't give me more than I could handle, and it took a while for me to get excited, but after the initial shock, It was the same feeling as my first pregnancy. My advise to you with children so close together is to not forget your oldest is still a baby, even though you have a new little one at home, my only regret is feeling like I didn't enjoy my older kids baby stages as much as I could have.
2007-01-16 10:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by saraphina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't (I'm pregnant with my first), but I do have some experience on the subject, as my cousin has two sons who were born exactly ten months apart (so she was a little sillier.)
And I'm not going to say 'Well, be more friggin' careful, then!' Accidents happen.
All I know is that it was harder than hell on Amie. If you don't think you can handle it...I'm not an advocate for abortion, but if there are physical issues, don't do it. Don't bring harm to yourself, and muck up any chances of having a child when you really want one.
You are, however, going to have to sit down with your husband and discuss this. You need to make sure that he knows how you feel, and any other issues you might have.
Good luck.
2007-01-16 10:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Paige D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
eventhough it was not planned, children are a blessing. don't get depressed as the baby will feel it and that isn't healthy for u or the baby.
Think about it this way.. they will grow up together, which is a lot better than having them grow too far apart and you having to start all over again.
God has given you another gift because he knows you can handle it..
don't be depressed, be happy.
hey at least your married! it's not like your single and don't even know who the father is..
good luck.
2007-01-16 10:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by green eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gir i have a baby dat is 4 months now and i am pregnant again and i couldnt pull myself together either but i am getting da hand of it if u need advice email me at
quanmyboo4ever@yahoo.com
2007-01-16 10:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by ~L3_L3~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my babies are a year and a half a part dont take it as a bad thing i did but found out it is great
2007-01-16 10:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that sux.
If you feel like you cannot handle it. i would say abortion, but i dont like those.and to me its wrong. and it also depends on how far along you are. you should talk to your husband about this. not others.
2007-01-16 10:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by yummy_20032001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋