Ok first off if you are going to start preaching about the bible and not to use the ouija board then please leave.
A few friends and I started using the ouija board a few months back. The first time it took about 45 minutes for it to start moving and once it did the spirit told us that it was our friend who committed suicide about 2 years ago. Anyway everytime after that it was like she was waiting for us the thingy would zip around the board spelling all kinds of things and everytime we played she would mention us calling her mother and would give us phone numbers(they never worked) she said her mother was not doing good. So the last time we used it she told us that she hadn't crossed over yet and she has unfinished business...which is for her best friend to get in touch with her mother. So since we have tried our best to find her mothers number and we can't...we are planning on using the ouija board again soon and want to help her cross over.....How can we do that??
2007-01-16 09:48:14 · 24 answers · asked by Jennifer M 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Also before we use the ouija board we do say prayers of protection and burn sage and surround ourselves with white candles and the white light of god. We do not play under the influence of any drugs. We do not ask for anything that we basically don't already know. Many people mention protection and to be careful...we are.
2007-01-16 10:25:58 · update #1
Also the whole thing about contacting her mother makes sense. My friend I use the board with and my spirit friend were friends since the age 2 and the families were very close, there has been NO communication between my friend and my spirits friends family since the death. So there might be some unfinished business in getting everyone back together.
2007-01-16 10:30:00 · update #2
We are unable to locate her mother because yes we did lose touch and her mother has(maybe had) an addiction to drugs. We've done every possible internet search on her and have come up with phone numbers that don't work. We know the town she lives in but it is quite possible that she doesn't even have a phone. She wasn't the most responsible of mothers.
2007-01-16 22:32:59 · update #3
1. It is not your business to help anyone "cross over". They will do that when they are ready in their own good time.
2. You are unable to help. Tell the spirit and then move on. She will have to seek assistance elsewhere or wait for her time.
3. Sounds like you are having fun. Keep it that way. Tell the spirit that help will have to be sought elsewhere.
Best advices. No, nothing will happen to you, and yes, she will move on. But once you have figured you can't help, time to move it along.
2007-01-16 10:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I am sorry for you loss. Obviously you feel the need to fulfill this possible peice of the puzzle.
With all the numbers they can get confused.. telephones and such are not really something important in the spirit relm so they are hard to convey.
I think that you already have a really good start. You have to do what you feel you must. I recommend trying to do it the old fashioned way though. It wont be a Oujia board that will put you in contact with her mother but just good ol hard work really. Hey playing PI can be sorta fun if you make it that way.
Oujia is not a good way to hold on. You can be talking to the person but other things can go wrong.. and your loved ones wouldnt want you to take any chances. Try using online white pages. I really like using anywho.com to help find people.
**good luck and many blessings**
2007-01-16 21:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by ladypaige357 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps physical leg work is in order here. The internet is not the "know all" of mankind. If you do know the town where the woman lives, then do a manual search of her where abouts. Perhaps reviewing police/emergency logs (available to the public) would show an instance where the woman utilized emergency services due to her addictions/problems. Psych inpatient/outpatient facilities will not release any information, nor with AA/NA meetings; however, attendance at open meetings is allowed and you may find her there if she is addressing her problems. In addition, the funeral parlor who took care of your friend may have a forwarding address where the family can be reached for condolences, etc. OR they may foward something for you if left with them. Just some ideas to help YOU move along in this loss... Blessings...
2007-01-24 08:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by chrysalystic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Boudica--it's not necessarily youre responsibility to help this spirit out. Unless there's a message of love involved, to go to the mother, it's best not to open old wounds.
However--if you still want to do so, go to the library and tell the librarian the names in question (without mentioning ghosts or ouija boards!), and see if she can help you track down your late friend's mother's name. It's possible she's moved or remarried. Also remember, if you find her--this woman LOST HER DAUGHTER. Treat her gently.
Keep in mind that the spirit in the ouija board may or may not be your friend (it's common knowledge among spiritualists that spirits lie). Also, it's unlikely to give you the right phone number for the same reason that it's difficult for us to read in our dreams--numbers and the alphabet are of our world and are only symbolic in the spirit world.
2007-01-16 18:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Vaughn 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You may be having a 'real' paranormal experience, or someone in your group may be 'pulling your legs' or could be in some serious 'psychological trouble.' It's impossible for me to tell you what is really happening ... but if you can (and you MUST BELIEVE YOU CAN), pray for the 'dead person's' soul, and ask God (or Jesus if you're basically Christian) to help her to 'pass over' and then ASK if there's anything you can do that does NOT require making a phone call or doing anything that could get you into trouble. If you still aren't happy, then I'd tall to a priest ... yes, a CATHOLIC priest ... preferably one who is familiar with 'exorcism', which is NOT what you think it is, and most priests do 'exorcism' all the time when they say mass. Tell him you're as UNCOMFORTABLE with him as you are with that Ouija board, and you may get help you can use from him. The Ouija board is just a 'tool' and is not 'supernatural' by itself, and I sense that there is something VERY WRONG somewhere, and a priest CAN help and will keep what you say 'a secret' ... and even if you're NOT a Catholic, you CAN go to a priest and talk to him ...
2007-01-16 18:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Any spirit that has not crossed over and gone to the light is suspect at best. They can shape shift and be anyone you want them to be. The fact is...if they were that concerned with the mother you would have had the right number in the first place. Be warned...ouija is not a game! It is a serious portal to the uneducated, stuck, lower level entities who are up to no good, for the most part and downright disruptive at their worst. Many a medium has had to make things right after such games and nonsense. It seems to me engaging in such activities without knowledge is rather dumb. How many other things would you do without some guidelines?
2007-01-16 18:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I really believe in psychic stuff and think there's a place for ouija boards. But I'm leaning toward thinking that unconsciously you guys are letting your friend "talk" to you. Which is OK because maybe helping her move on is helping you guys move on.
For yourselves, and potentially your spirit friend, tell her that you're OK and that her mom will be OK. It will give everyone more peace if she can find peace herself. Tell her that you love her and that you'll see her on the otherside someday and can't wait to see her again. Even if it's just you guys making the board move without really even knowing it, I think the goodbye will be really healthy for everyone. You can do it with the board, without it, in an informal ceremony at someone's house or even a visit to the gravesite. Sorry you lost your friend!
2007-01-16 17:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
It wasn't your friend who offed himself, it was a spirit demon who is directed by satan. People who have died are not floating around waiting for a home. They are either with the Lord in Heaven or awaiting hell - the demon will manipulate you into thinking he is your friend, he may even tell you things which are true, because they are hanging around hoping for our demise. They don't want to go to hell without you. They want to distract you, deceive you and make fools of you, which sounds like they have done a good job.
2007-01-16 21:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Forever 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look for the mother's phone number on whitepages DOT com, and stay away from the ouija board.
2007-01-16 17:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask the Ouija board for Her Mother's telephone number?
2007-01-16 17:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by Windsor 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋