im 14 and by mistake got pregnant does childbirth hurt and are there any video websites that i can watch about it
please help me
2007-01-16 09:41:31 · 17 answers · asked by hottestcheerleader 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yes, childbirth hurts. Go to babyzone.com. They have some videos. You can also ask your doctor when you go. They should provide videos for you to watch at the office.
2007-01-16 09:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different, it is to sad to hear you are already pregnant with no background like husband, job ec.
But it happend so i try to give you some advice, like i already said it depends how much pain you can handle as person.
Mine was wonderful, my water broke i started having contraction every 5min, and you can breath them through there is a way i did it ( i would recommend an la mas class if it's possible that's a class who gives you help with a lot of things during pregnancy and birth) anyway after 5 hours my little girl came into our world.I did not have any kind of medication(i'm allergic to all kind of pain medicine) but it was not necessary anyway, i can not say i had terrible pain it was just an weird feeling....I actually think the breastfeeding part was a lot more painful.
Don't worry doesn't matter how your pregnancy or birth will be it doesn't have to be always whatever how long hours in labor or a terrible pain birth, you will forget about anything after that anyway.
good luck for you and your unborn god bless
2007-01-16 17:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by m_faery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Welcome to the club! I'm 23 and I got pregnant by mistake! :o) First, don't let anyone try to make you feel bad. People make mistakes everyday, some are just different than others. I don't even know you and I'm proud of you for keeping your baby. That takes guts! So forget what people say to you or their judgmental looks. They're not perfect either.
As far as births are concerned. Yes, Vag birth hurts. But it's not going to kill you. Believe it or not, your body was designed to do it. They offer meds to help with the pain and once the baby is delivered, you will forget all about the pain and you'll only see a perfect little mini-you.
Congrats on your baby!!
2007-01-16 17:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by SBananas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts.
Don't watch the birth stories that yo usee on TV.... they are not realistic!!! You can't have a baby within half an hour!!
Check out your local health clinic, or planned parenthood, or a midwife, or the library for videos. I also highly recommend taking a prenatal class. Ask lots of questions of Mom's that you know. And, make sure your birthing coach has experience with labour and is someone you trust and can rely on!!!
Good luck... child birth is very natural... but I would get the drugs!!!
2007-01-16 17:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15 when i fell pregnant with my son. I was told that teen bodys can handle it better than older bodys but it still hurt enough for me not to want to go back for a second any time soon after that. my son is nearly 11 and im 30 weeks pregnant and i am so scared to go though that again. so no matter what any one tells you it DOES hurt but the bigger question is that labor will only last hours the baby will be there for ever is this what you really want??
2007-01-16 18:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by nazjaydan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pregnant with my first child.im sure it does hurt.but everyone says its a pain that you soon forget when your child is born.do you have supportive parents?is the boy in the picture?good luck to you and your family.im sure that it takes alot of gut being 14 and going to have a baby.im 26 and scared..god bless you! go to pregnancy.com its a pretty cool website.you can get a profile and they tell you week by week things you can expect.there are videos you can watch but im sure its gonna be different for each person.just be a good mom and take the very best of care for your baby.
2007-01-16 17:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does hurt! But it doesn't last forever and there are meds that the doctor can give you. When I was pregnant I watched a baby story and birth stories on tv I think its on tlc or something. Good luck!
2007-01-16 17:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by littleone84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it hurts, whether you have a vaginal birth or a c section. You should look into taking a childbirth education class at your hospital.
2007-01-16 17:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Brian H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going to be honest with you it hurts bad!!! but i would ask for an epidural because it really takes away from the pain and helps you relax more to help the baby have a good birth. the Miracle of Life is a good video that helps you to see how your baby grows and what happens as they grow and come down the birthing canal. good luck on that and i hope this helps.
2007-01-16 17:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Alisha C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find an adult to talk to. They can help you.
Childbirth does hurt but they have medications they can give you to minimize the pain. I had an epidural and hardly had any pain at all.
This is a lot for you to go through alone. Find an adult you can trust and talk to them about it.
2007-01-16 17:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋