ive fealt really depressed ever sience i moved and went to a different school i dont have any friends and no one ever talks to me how can i be happy like i used to?
2007-01-16 09:37:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I believe that the quickest way to make friends in school is to join, join, join!!! Sports teams, clubs whatever you are interested in and you will meet people that share those interests. Give yourself and the kids at your new school a little time to get to know each other. Invite someone to a movie or just to have a coke and talk. Or ask about an assignment, that will break the ice and most people are willing to help someone new. Ask yourself do you come off as unapproachable? Is is something you may be doing without realizing it?
2007-01-24 07:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as you don't make the effort nor will anyone else. Don't be afraid to make friends or be happy. If you seem unapproachable people will not approach you. If you come off as friendly people will. When I first moved to the city where I lived now, I was alone but only for about an hour before two girls came up and befriended me and I have been fruitful with my friends ever since. Trust me, showing vulnerablility isn't always a bad thing. Go to the library at lunch or a teacher's class room that way yoú'll meet people that are focused on their school work. Try to talk to the people in your classes, that always work. Try smiling.lol. Good luck sweetie, and if you ever need to talk or feel lonely. I'm always here.
2007-01-16 09:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I just started a new college and I'm totally out of my safety zone.
If there is anything you have an interest in then join a club.
Also, this will sound really dumb, but next time your in a class and sitting next to someone that seems nice ask them a question. Even if you know the answer. Like when is the assignment due, where do we go to buy tickets for this, or really anything. Form there you can easily strike up a conversation.
2007-01-16 09:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only one way: think about the things that YOU like to do.
Now go find groups that do those things.
Join the groups (several of them, right away).
Attend the meetings every week, month, or whatever.
You'll stay busy and you'll meet new people, some of whom will become friends.
Do NOT let the sun go down tonight without contacting at least THREE different groups!
Best of luck.
2007-01-16 09:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull yourself up. Don't give yourself a moment of free time. Immerse yourself in any clubs or activities available, and try to get really great grades. If it makes sense, get an afterschool job. Make friends at work. Physical activities like biking or swimming help counter-act depression.
2007-01-22 14:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by DW2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time. most people feel this way. they feel alone and strange everyday. i know i would. but i stayed home for school, im too nervous to leave what im used to. you were brave enough to take the first step. now, give the second step a little time. relax and let new people come to you, and make an effort to go to them. it takes everyone a little bit of time. give yourself that time. back when you first started school, you didnt know anyone either. you will be fine.
2007-01-16 09:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By stop been a drama queen right now. People can tell how depress you are and use that as an excuse to stay as far away from you as possible. No one want to be dealing with your drama. Go to school everyday as happy as you use to go to the old one.
2007-01-16 09:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, accepting the fact that you are no longer where you use to be in age, wisdom and geographically. People may not approach you because you do not allow them to. when you walk to class do you lift your eyes off the ground and say good morning to anyone.. that might be a good ice breaker... You are responsible for your happYness. Get up and shake up yourself man.
2007-01-24 02:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by mllttsmn2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take off your loneliness away. It like a rock lay on you so hard that you try to removed. The best way is to widen out but be wise to choose who is your true friends are.
Let me know if it helps
2007-01-20 19:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Nelfie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out there and interact with anybody everybody, you never know who you might meet. All it takes is just one spark, once that happens everything else will just follow and begin to roll out like it once did before you moved. Don't think about what you once had, think about what you might have in the future.
2007-01-16 09:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by lufifteen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋