I am 16, not bad looking, and I have quite a few mates...?

Question

yet have never had a girlfriend. Any advice? (Serious, please.)

Answer 1

If you have quite a few mates while you are 16 - believe me you are on the right lines. Carry on what you are doing and the ladies will come. walking towards you slowly. Just give it time.

Answer 2

I have three rules for "how to get a girlfriend" each of them is equally important.

#1 Take care of your appearance.
We've all heard "looks don't count" but that is crap. Of course looks count and you want to look your best. This means make sure you get a haircut, wear a clean shirt and tie your shoes. This means go to the gym, this means clean out your car and your room. You want to be a polished up version of yourself. Wash your face, maybe buy a few new clothes. People are far more likely to feel at home and comfortable around someone who takes care of themself and isn't a "fixer-upper". I'm not saying go prep, just pay attention to how you look.

#2 Actually talk to girls
Girls like guys who are easy to talk to and have a rapport with them. Some guys have this naturally, but if you need advice you aren't one of them. You need to build up your social skills by talking to girls. Once this becomes easy and you can start a conversation and carry a conversation without feeling awkward you will quickly build up a network of female friends who you can either have your pick from or can "reccomend" a friend to you.

#3 Don't be creepy
The other two rules are pretty straightforward, but this one is a little more vague. The things you think are awesome are not the things that a girl thinks are awesome. Don't talk about star wars with a potential date (unless of course she does happen to be into it) don't talk about lord of the rings, don't talk incessantly about your car or guns or body building. Remember that your hobbies are YOUR hobbies, you should save the shop talk and the nerd discourse between you and your WoW buddies. Don't make jokes that you are sure no one else is going to get. People don't like to be laughed at and people don't like when you "demostrate how smart you are" especially at their expense. In short, save the battlestar galactica box set for another day, bite your tongue, and watch the OC with her.

Confidence is key, girls are attracted to solid boys who are confident with who they are and what they want. Girls are also usually attracted to humor, but remember that the hero gets the girl, not his comic relief sidekick.

When all else fails, action first and talking second. You are never going to talk a girl into a kiss, just kiss her without talking about it first.

Answer 3

just b yourself,don't be shy-be strong enough to talk to her,don't b in a hurry-don't b too serious when your talking to her-always remember,most girls like guys who can make them laugh-once you finally get her trust-then it's time for u to tell her about how u feel, about how she makes u feel good - and finally tell her casually that you like her-don't say i love u right away-tell her she doesn't need to answer u yet tha she can take her time-u know if she likes u she'll tell u right away that she loves u also-this technique i'm giving u is just,shall we call it the basic of how to get yourself a sweetheart- remember always,practice more and that will make u a lover boy and also don't forget to use condom

Answer 4

Get to know more girls and spend time with them.

Remember: Girls your age are shy and it is most unlikely they will take the initiative to ask you out. Therefore you have to take the initiative which involves the risk of a girl turning you down. But don't despair - I am sure that you'll find a nice girlfriend sooner or later.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Ur 16 and you have mates? If you're saying what I think you're saying, then I think you're way too young to be doing that.

Answer 6

You're probably a little too young to be worried about this type thing right now. Focus on school and your future. I don't understand why young adults continue to bog themselves down with such things that are just not important at that time in their lives.

Answer 7

Do what I did. Go to some party with your mates, and just dance with random girls.

Answer 8

What you need to do is ask your self that question, and you will come up with the right answer. Like are you the shy type? Many guys don't get a gf because they're shy.

Answer 9

Just be patient and the right girl will appear.

Answer 10

some girl u think is awesome will come along and you have to take a chance! talk to her, ask her out. it may not be easy. let her know your available, but don't advertise. best of luck !!