i am not maturemature what do i do to become more mature.like calm myself down before i do something stupid .what do i do ?do you have any tips or ideas.
2007-01-16 08:00:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i am 11 years of age
2007-01-16 08:03:09 · update #1
i would say not to act mature because i,m 18 and ive seen girls that are under age that act so mature. And it looks like they want to be cool or something. I would suggest to wait until your mature.
2007-01-16 08:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"m not too sure what you are asking. At eleven, you shouldn't have to worry too much about growing up. If you are feeling pressured to do something, you should talk to a trusted adult. Sometimes even a guidence counselor at school. If you want to be mature, think about your actions and how they would make others feel. Take into consideration that what you do has an effect on others.
2007-01-16 16:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you sound so much like me when i was your age. (im now 14) you cant learn maturity, but have fun until your utleast 13 because you really need to have fun while you can and then, just do simple things like think before you speak, dont throw tantrumes, think of concerquences. i bought a bracelet, its like a "hippy" braclet, and when ever i go to say something, i look at it and it reminds me to think, it really helps. you should try it.
good luck.
2007-01-17 11:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to think and make a mature judgement about your actions. You're already aware of your problem and what you need to do to change... that's a pretty mature thought!!
2007-01-16 16:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maturity comes with time. maybe you could try meditation, yoga, reading. Try unwinding activities, and stress-busters. However, at eleven nobody is expecting you to act like you're thirty. Even I have a lot of energy to me. As I mentioned, maybe try meditational activities.
2007-01-16 16:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by eclipsedinuyasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being mature when you are 11 means that you don't dance around when you're happy or have boyfriends. you don't have to be that mature now, but just try to not do anything illegal or act upon rage or supposed "love".
2007-01-16 19:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already taken the first step, now tell GOD exactly what you just told us and it's yours. It's to be learned, the bible is the best way. The HOLLY SPIRIT will walk you thru the learning.
2007-01-18 12:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by windwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engage brain before acting or speaking.
2007-01-16 17:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think before you say or do anything. Weigh out all consequensces before making your decisions.
2007-01-16 16:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still a kid your only 11.
2007-01-17 04:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋