there is a complicated girl that i like a lot i want to go out wit herbut she just broke up with one of my friends and she is hurt i want to help her out and go out wit her at the same time what can i do?
2007-01-16 07:52:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wait awhile! Give her some space and let her heal or you'll be in for a just friends conversation. Plus what kind of friend are you to go with your buddies X.
2007-01-16 08:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lilbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, in this concern i'd say she isn't being complicated. i'd basically say that she is frightened, and is uncertain about how she really feels about you. some time, sit which includes her and tell her the way you experience. Reassure her that there is not something to be hectic or afraid of, and be a help for her. at the same time as she feels waiting, she'll open up. basically be careful, reason you would possibly want to really damage her emotions. solid success!
2016-10-17 01:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first make sure it is okay with your friend. Then give her space so that she can cope with it. dont jump into askin her out on a date or anything yet. Make sure you let her know that your there to help her get through it then see how it goes after that. If things go well then ask her out but dont move at a fast pace for her
2007-01-16 07:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by simply happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it man. You are just the rebound guy that will get dump quick once the pain is gone. And if she complicated you don't want to date someone with a bunch of issue, and emotionally not there. RUN RUN RUN the other way
2007-01-16 07:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she like you? have she ever? are you a firend of her's? or are you just a guy she knows? if you're nothing special.. give her time to heal. only an idiot would rely on a random guy to help heal the pain of a previous relationship. no one trusts strangers..lol.
if ur a friend of hers.. then try talk to her about her anger and pain.. if u show her that u care.. she will respect you and like you.. so good luck. think about where you stand in HER EYES before you make your move.
2007-01-16 08:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by babycake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say let her get over your friend first before you start going out and be her friend and be there for her you can just give her a little hug and tell her you're sorry just something like that and I'm sure she'd really like that.
2007-01-16 07:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her heal. Be there and support her. Be a friend now. All relationships must start out with friendships if they will amount to anything later.
2007-01-16 07:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out with just being her friend then move up from there
2007-01-16 07:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Star~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to help her out? Or YOU WANT SOMETHIN' ELSE?
I'm not sure if she's "a complicated girl" but I'm sure YOU ARE AN OLD MAN WITH COMPLICATION.
2007-01-16 07:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be their for her for now. Help her get through this then try your luck. If you are their for her then she will realize that she likes you too. Just be their when she needs you. Good luck!
2007-01-16 07:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by romeo3448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋