We live in CA, I am on the deed but not on the loan, can my husband throw myself and my daughters (ages 14 and 15) and my granddaughter out of the house? Even though he is threatening to have us evicted he still wants the mortgage money, what are my options?
2007-01-16 07:29:28 · 19 answers · asked by galegna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's as much YOUR house, as it is HIS house....he can NOT throw you out. He's trying to "bully" you into leaving. Stand firm!!
2007-01-16 07:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're on the deed, then..nope he cant throw you out. In fact, he's the one responsible for paying for the loan, while you reap the benefits of the home. If he stops paying the loan, however, you're gonna lose the house too. But he can't even make you pay the loan cause your name isnt on it. THe main thing you did right was getting your name on the deed!!! He can't kick you out...not legally anyway. You should watch more Judge Judy and Judge Mathis girl! You gotta know your rights when dealing with a fool.
PS start putting money aside for you and your kids and NEVER tell him about it. Looks like you're in for some drama...at least you'll have money....Even if it's 10 bucks a week. It adds up!
2007-01-16 07:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not under any circumstances leave the house. The moment you do, it may be considered abandonment. and he would get the house. Possession is 9 tenths of the law. If you are on the deed, do not leave the house. only a court can force you to lose the house if you still live there.
Seek an attorneys advice though.
2007-01-16 08:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by DAD_to_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a lawyer, not answers.com.
Call a women's shelter near you. They can give you great advice.
This is important. Get him out of there. You are being emotionally abused
He is abusing those kids.
Me? I'd wait till he goes to work ,get a restraining order against him, so he is breaking the law to come near you. I would change th elocks, and throw his clothes in a pile outside.
Go to the bank and take out half the money. Today.
Haven't you had enough? What's enough?
If you are not on the loan, you might not owe a thing. l
2007-01-16 07:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for the time you are going thru now. if you are legally married you cant be thrown out of your own house but you can file a restraining order on your husband if he become abusive and they he will not be able to come home until it is lifted. you should contact a local domestic / marriage group for appropriate and or better advice
2007-01-16 07:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
living in this kind of atmosphere is no good 4 any of you. he is horrible, marriages breakdown but there is no reason 4 him to be so cruel espically to his own children. my advise is get yourself and your kids a place of your own, hard as it may be it will be your and there will be no ogre breathing down your neck. let him see you can do without him. get yourself sorted and when he says it again ask him if thats what he really wants, if he says yes get outta there. it will be hard but rewarding inthe end. see a lawyer and set up the sale of the house and childsupport, see how big he is then. your children deserve better and so do you. i live in n. ireland and have 5 kids i have been through breakup myself and know its not easy, but it will hit him when its too late. move oout and move on. dont let him put you down anymore.
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2007-01-16 07:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by alroka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is going to throw you out, thats dumb. ~is there a reason as to why he is??~ just remember, if he does and those girls are his also, he will owe you so much more than u owe to him. all u will hafta worry about is providing a roof and food for your family. he on the other hand will have to give you child supprt and the courts will make sure that your children and urself are taken care of. contact a lawyer asap!!
2007-01-16 07:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by JENN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce first and have him thrown out. He'll have to pay all the mortgage then and he'll be evicted!!!
I'd do it to him before he can do it to you. Any man who'd put kids out can't be much of a man!
2007-01-16 07:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont already have a job get one try and keep your options open do some research online and save up your money make a bank account that only you can touch so if the day dous come you have back up money to handle yourself
2007-01-16 07:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by simply happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your call is on the deed you will have him positioned out. you have the terrific of the two worlds you may get the homestead and not might desire to make the money. If the youngsters are his he's SCREWED.
2016-10-07 06:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋