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Question

my husband has been receiving phone calls late in the night and when i ask him who is calling him he says he will tell me later....he went out of town to see his auntie and the calls still come in when pick the phone the person hangs up.i have tried to speak to him about this and he is not opening up i know its a woman he is speaking to and everytime i ask he says he will explain and he never does...
i need an answer i cant have people call my hse at wee hours of the morning please help

Answer 1

Demand an explanation. Your right to be suspicious, and you deserve an explanation for the strange phone calls.

Answer 2

A couple things do not add up...you say it's a female...he said he'll explain later...he went to visit his auntie, yet the calls continue? Wouldn't you think if it was a lover or someone he was cheating with he would have 1) told her? 2) with her? or 3) called him at his aunties? I have a feeling she is an annoyance and he's trying to rid her himself without involving you. Once in a while people come across a leach, it is mostly innocent on our part where we try to either help them or befriend them and they become infatuated with us to the point that no matter what we say about being happily married or not interested in a relationship with them they do not hear us and they continually become a bigger pain in our lives. These people that are leaches can become more of a threat then just phone calls, they have been known to harrass people at work and threaten our loved ones, some have even harmed the one they are harassing. Be careful and I would set down with your husband when he comes home and have him tell you everything.

Answer 3

Change your number or get some respect answer the phone yourself. Wait until the person calls again, don't be sleep just be up with some coffee and get ready for to called. Another thing you do is cut the ringer off and let her leave a message, if you have caller id-get that hoe number. Best beleive she will stop calling that house. Trust in believe and that hubsand of yours he will not be disrespecting.

Answer 4

Simply unplug the phone when you go to bed, and plug it back in when you get up in the morning. Then start pleasantly asking your husband who has been calling him. Ask him twice a day, every day. Also, call the number several times per day, every day, until someone answers. When someone answers, say that someone at that number has been calling your house and you'd like to know who it is. Patience will be your friend if you are willing to take the moral high ground.

Answer 5

dont say anything else about it, get * 69 and then when the call comes in, just wait until he is out of the room or sleeping write the number down, then check the number. find out who it is. then ask him who it is, and why they are calling in the middle of the night, make him give you a answer do take NO for the answer , If he lies about who it is, (AND HE WILL) hes a cheater leave him to answer the calls, you do not need a man like that, there are a few Good ones out there. GOOD LUCK

Answer 6

Tell him his time has ran out and you wanna know what the hell is going on now. Or his time is right out the door. Put your foot down hard. Get caller id threw the phone company also.

Answer 7

You are right,. It's a woman and late night hung-ups is a serious sign of cheating.

Put your foot down and demand an explanation. As long as you let him slide, he won;t tell you.

Good luck

Answer 8

call the phone company and get *69 on your phone then get call reveal on it don't tell your husband hide the box youll find out soon enough thier is also away to block that # from calling your phone but first find out who she is and kick her but up and down the street.

Answer 9

Get caller ID.
Put the phone on your side of the bed.

Cyn

Answer 10

sweetie he is cheating on you and playing stupid. seek out an personal investigator so that they can secretly put a tap on your phone and trail your husband. then...seek a lawyer.