Was in a beautiful live in relationship with my bf. My family and I loved him and he loved us all back for 3 yrs. I used to travel and buy gifts everytime I got back, sex was amazing and he was my emotional pillar. He is 9 yrs younger to me and since i had the money, i lent him coz his problems were mine. Sacrificed the time I spent with family and friends to be with him. And then it all came crashing down, when he said he wanted to break up. He was cheating on me. He broke my heart and left me 2 months back for a girl, lonely with no one to run to. My trust was broken when i got to know he was having sex with other women, while I was away on work. Hurt, I wanted the money back. He said he was leaving town and will return it when he returns. Truth is he never left. He lied to me,didnt apologize, just said "I owe you money which you will get". Even more hurt, I asked him for EVERYTHING I ever gave to him, back...and he is returning all gifts and money, but its him I love and want back.
2007-01-16
07:19:08
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I feel terribly used and abused right now, and I dont even know whether his love for me was real, although he says it was. He lied to me so many times and I dont know what to believe. I want to move on, but feel terrible at him just returning all the money and all the gifts i gave him till date, because he is hurt. He says dont call , coz I mentally disturb him. He says he is happy that at least he has his freedome. I gave him complete freedom too, but whats the point in staying friends and suffering like this as if I am obssessed with him. Its been easier on him coz he has somebody to go to, and I have no one...Cant tell my family coz they will get all worked up and my friends have all moved out of town....What do I do? I am in such a mess...
2007-01-16
07:23:11 ·
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