i have been with him for about 2years and 1/2. and we even lived together. so is he the one??? how do i know if he is?
2007-01-16 06:51:36 · 16 answers · asked by roxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IF YOU CAN ANSWER YOUR QUESTION THEN HE IS NOT THE ONE****
2007-01-16 06:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding the 'right' person is not an act of magic! There is no secret formula! Instead of asking yourself the proverbial 'is he Mr. Right', you should be doing a little homework to find out who he really is. Does he like some of the things you do? Does he agree to let you have as many children as you want? Is he financially stable? Does he profess the same religion you do? Does he like basically the same food you do? They seem like silly questions to ask but if you analyze them, they are essential for a good life together. Don't dwell so much on the romantic crap that has been put into your head and be more practical at your approach towards marriage and a long lasting relationship. Be proactive when looking for signs of longevity in the relationship.
2007-01-16 07:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know that anyone is ever really ready. you may feel like you are, but i think everyone has that little sliver of doubt. I thought i was ready until the second i had to start walking down the isle...and i still swear that if my dad wasnt bigger than me and my heels were a little shorter, i woulda been a runaway bride! But i was just scared, and im glad i didnt run because i know i made the right decision. Marriage is a lot of work and a lot of compromise. If you love eachother and are both ready and willing to work and copromise then you may be ready for marriage. When you are okay with the fact that divorce will NOT be a option, you are ready. Pray about it.
2007-01-16 07:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Aubrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he said anything to you about getting married? Or about your future together?
Two and a half years is more than enough time for him to know whether or not to marry you. If he hasn't said anything, he will never marry you; epecially if you two still live together. Why marry when he already has his cake?
Move on to someone else if your answers to my questions above are both no.
2007-01-16 07:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When are financially, emotionally, mentally and spiritually stable to support and love uniconditionally another person for the continuation of both your lives.
2007-01-16 06:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Briand K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to live with him for the rest of ur life and the thought of not being with him is just too hard to contemplate then ur ready to marry him :o)
2007-01-16 06:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Barson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't need to question yourself if you really felt you belonged together forever
2007-01-16 07:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you think of him does it make you smile?
when you think of life without him does it hurt
does he make you feel as if there is no one else but you. i wake up every morning to the words good morning i love you thats how you know
2007-01-16 07:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by sweet treat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question then you aren't ready
2007-01-16 06:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well only you know that. If you are questioning it, then hes probably not.
2007-01-16 06:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by courtney b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree...if you're asking this then you're not ready!
2007-01-16 06:58:49 · answer #11 · answered by mamamitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋