My bf broke up with me b/c i told my mom a few of our problems and i know that most females do, but please guys ang girls opinions are welcome. My bf broke it off with me for that reason and for not telling him things on time, and just it sounds like he never really gave me a chance to prove to him that i am not like that, that i can tell him things on time. But yet i held a few things of my personal life back from him about my past, and my friend would tell him that stuff like bits and peices and i would plan on telling my now ex bf later on in the relationship. I dont know if he didnt like me or if it was little things just building up. But yet his story changes towards me about why he broke it off with me, like he told me that it was b/c i would tell my mom everything, then it was he couldnt concentrate on three things at once in his life, then it was him trying to get his life back on track, then it was i hiding something from him, I dont know.....any help please!?!?!?!?
2007-01-16 06:48:33 · 7 answers · asked by fryeindustries2002 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He was embarrassed that you let someone else know of his little down fall. It may be normal but guys have this pride thing and it's tough to get around it. Go with this as apposed to the other things he told you. They sounded more like excuses than causes. I had a similar problem in my marriage. I found myself out of work (thanks to her) and she was so quick and easy to get on welfare. I don't like welfare at all but I sat through it for a short while but the topper was when her mother's church sent a box of food. That's just flat out Charity and something I won't sit still for. I prefer to make my own way in the world. Hell, I didn't even start going to the VA hospital until it was absolutely no other way to get healed.
It all boils down to you didn't talk it over with him so you didn't know how he'd react. If you want him back, sit him down and talk face to face calmly, it's the first step and maybe the only step needed.
2007-01-16 07:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while in a relationship it is never easy to open up and air your dirty laundry but , you must always be honest and upfront about your past , your friend is not your friend becasue if he or she was they would not have told your ex. Now if your friend is f she may have alterior motives and the same could be true if your friend is m , the male would have done it because he likes you and the female would have done it because she likes yor ex or maybe you were not giving enough time to them.
2007-01-16 06:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by CHARLES H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let ya life revovle around that one boy. It's time 2 move on. If he wanna b dat way he can b that way by himself. Dont try 2 change ya ways 4 him. I 'm sure there's goin 2 b better people out there 4 u. It's gonna b hard but u just gotta move on girl.
~*Tuveesha*~
2007-01-16 06:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not good enough reason to leave unless your mother was interfering with your relationship. He must have been looking for a reason to get out.
2007-01-16 06:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy. if they understand commitment then little stuff can slide if they don't get it then they run at the first sign of trouble. they haven't grown up yet if they are doing this.
2007-01-16 06:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like one of of the guys that doesn't want to listen to girls well i would make him sit down wit you and have a little chat!!!
2007-01-16 06:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTY!!!
2007-01-16 06:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋