let me give you a list of my "accomplishments" ::
started ditching class in middle school & haven't stopped..im absent at least one day a week now
got a tattoo for my 16th birthday...behind their backs of course
am already sexually active and they found out by finding a recite for a pregnancy test in my pocket.
recently went missing but was caught later that week at my boyfriend's house
ran away for the 2nd time last month
i know i shouldn't do stuff like this but whats wrong with doing what you want to do? im just living for the moment so i can't regret anything later...is that wrong? & im not doing anything majorly illegal like selling drugs...i've never even taken drugs and have only drunk once!
2007-01-16 06:48:18 · 9 answers · asked by chyna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was where you are once and thought I didn't want to regret missing out on things, I was way wrong the regrets I have now are worse for having done the things you are doing now. Stop and think how you will feel when you have children and these things come out. Because of my behavior I ended up pregnant at 18 and it was hard but we made it I had two more after that. I regret not getting the education and putting that first. When I was old enough to go and experience the world I couldn't make enough money to do it. now I am still wondering how things would have turned out if I had done things the way my parents wanted. My kids have turned out ok but I was even stricter than my parents because I knew where all that would lead. I wish you the best You are in for a hard road if you don't get it together fast. Does this make you a bad daughter? I don't think so I think you are dissapointing them because they can see your potential.
2007-01-16 07:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mary B 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that the very fact you're asking this question makes you a good daughter, as strange as that may seem. You're questioning how your actions are affecting your parents. You are very young, living for the moment is all a part of growing up. However, now that you've recognized this, it might be a good idea to slow down a little. Try to be the good daughter you really want to be--by asking this question, I know you do. Good luck.
2007-01-16 07:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let me say this....you are retarded for real. "Your just living the moment"??? What moment??? You can do that in a smarter way. What are you proving to you and your parents by running away, having unprotected sex.....which by the way, go ahead and live the moment and get aids/STD's..you be living the moment for a long time in pain. Anyway....are you trying to rebel or something?? Get real....grow up. Your parents don't deserve this. Look at it like this...if you do want children in the future how would you feel if your child does the same thing as you did??? Point said. You need to stop living in so called moment.....things you do may haunt you in the future...you need wake up to reality on the real!!!
2007-01-16 07:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You're not a bad daughter, and you should never think you are. You just have different ways of having fun and expressing yourself. I can understand where you are coming from because, I am a teenager too. Just try to stay out of trouble, and maybe try to hang with different people if that's the case.
2007-01-16 06:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not living for the moment. You're living for yourself. Who is proud of you but yourself? Who is happy for you but you? Who have you made happy but yourself? If living for yourself is your only accomplishment so far in your life then it's a life wasted. That will be your regret later.
2007-01-16 07:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your not a bad daughter...im younger than you and im really stresses out. i got brave and ran away a few weeks ago hoping it would settle things between me and my mom but no...it hasent helped at all but it takes away stress to me and even though i know there wrong...when i ran away it was in th e middle of the night and i was scared and praying everything would be okay and i was crying.....just pray itll make it better
2007-01-16 06:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by plz.help_me_live 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you are not a bad daughter. Your human. You just have some issues you need to address. You will grow out of this.
2007-01-16 07:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you do sound bad, but i suppose its probably normal for these days, but you really shouldnt be bad to your parents, you might need their help later on in life
2007-01-16 07:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Calais 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually i think you just need some help and personally from what you say it doesn't sound like you are getting much from your parents. it actually sounds like they aren't teaching you and instead telling you and that doesn't work parents should teach their kids and show their kids not just tell them it sounds like they're not doing their jobs either.
2007-01-16 07:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by Face-N-Nameless 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋