I am 30 years old.
I have been in a great loving relationship for a few years.
My other half has been a great dad to my daughter who is 8, how ever he would love to have a baby of our own.
I have been pregnant three times since getting together all ended in miss carriage.
I have taken steps to prevent myself from becoming pregnet. and have been thinking about getting my tubes tyed.
I have not told him, how i am thinking, cause i know it would hurt him.
Should, i tell him how i am thinking or just go a head and not tell him whats am thinking about doing and doing?
2007-01-16 06:32:57 · 7 answers · asked by passonfruits 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You should definitely talk about this with your husband or boyfriend. I can understand your nervousness about getting pregnant. I just had a miscarriage for the first time after having had a healthy baby 2.5 years ago, and can't imagine having another miscarriage. Maybe think about talking to a counselor about your fears and maybe begin healing emotionally. I an sure that he will understand the fear and concern that you are having after all these are losses for him too.
2007-01-20 04:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infertility can be caused by a huge number of factors: hormone imbalance, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, Endometriosis, Anovulatory Cycles, physical blockage, inadequate hormone production, short luteal phase, lack of lutenizing hormone, high levels or prolactin, and many others. How to get pregnant https://tr.im/hcqpl
Poor nutrition often plays a major role, as does exposure to toxins. Age plays less of a role before menopause than was originally thought. While there are many wonderful naturally minded fertility specialists out there, in many cases it is not possible for them to test for and address any of these possible underlying issues.
2016-02-10 22:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mines mom was pregnant the same time i was with my 2nd. she was 43 and i was 25. 30 years old is definetly still young enough to have more kids if you want to...but i can see why you wouldn't want to having lost 3 kids. i definetly think you should tell your husband how you are feeling and discuss it will him. he would feel very hurt if you did things like that behind his back, especially getting your tubes tied. if you talk to him and tell him how you feel he may understand and support you getting your tubes tied even if he is a little disappointed. he loves you after all. :)
2007-01-16 06:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by ravinskye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in a stable long lasting relationship, then you owe it to him to be honest and tell him what you're thinking (especially if he's wanting children and you're not giving him an answer one way or the other). I don't think you'd appreciate him making a change that could affect you without at least talking to you about it first....
2007-01-16 06:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST WITH YOUR HUSBAND, I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH I HAVE A 9 YR SON AND HAVE GOTTEN PREGNANT AND IT HAS ENDED IN MISSCARRIAGE AND GETTING PREGNANT AGAIN SCARES ME SO I KNOW IT IS HARD, BUT YOU GUYS NEED TO TALK IT OVER BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING.TELL HIM YOUR FEARS AND LISTEN TO HIS SIDE AFTER BOTH SIDES ARE OUT THEN MAKE UP YOUR MIND.I WISH YOU LUCK WITH WHATEVER YOU DECIDE.
2007-01-16 06:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be honest. He should understand or at least appreciate you being truthful with him.
2007-01-16 06:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by been_there_done_that 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest if he really loves you he will understand
2007-01-16 06:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋