I have sought a girl/teen/teen mom 16-24.It has been my experience that the fathers of teen moms are unwilling to step up to the plate to accept responsibility as i would.I sought a younger girl, for girls my age or therebouts are beyond the wanton for a child,or can no longer concieve,as i so yearn for fatherhood.I have had the fortune to meet teens/teen moms and maintain them as friends,but none were willing to go to the next level.I am morally,ethically and politically correct.People call me a pervert or pedophile on the surface,because they are unwilling to get to know me.I am far from being a pervert.I have always considered myself an advocate for those less fortunate when in happenstance,i do not go looking for moments of advocacy.
2007-01-16 06:21:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well in my country(Saudi) it's legal to marry a 14 year old woman if your in your 20s+. So it doesn't bother me. Since this is the USA then maybe people here might not see your good intentions.
2007-01-16 06:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I get the distinct impression that something is missing from your question, aside from your age. You come across as very defensive which leads me to believe that there is some level of guilt there. I think that under the surface you know something is not right about your preference for teen moms, hence all the explanations. You may want to seek some counseling before entering a long term relationship with anyone. Maybe you can figure out why you have such a strong need to be a father, and why you feel you need to be a teen moms savior. Yes, something is definitely missing. Try counseling.
p.s 18 may be legal, not always moral.
2007-01-16 07:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by adondeesta1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By law you may not date anyone under 16 and by law you may date someone 16 or 17 but may not have sex with them, I would really be careful and these teens you are seeking live by there parents rules and they may not be happy about there teenage daughter dating a grown man, I know I sure would not be happy about it.
If you want to be a father go look for a women to get with and have a baby with her, even though a father may not be in the picture now for these teen mothers babies does not mean they wont be in the future and most mothers tell there kids when they hit there teen years that the man they call dad is not really there dad.
I have a 2 year old and I am 19 and his dad is not in the picture but that does not mean he wont be 5 years from now and if he never is I am never going to lie to my son and tell him someone is his father when he is not. If I get married and he calls my husband dad then that is great and I want someone who treats my son like he is there own but my son will always know that the man is not his real father, it is not right to hide such a big important thing from my son.
2007-01-16 06:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call you a pedophile if you're not messing around with kids. As long as the women you deal with are over 18 then I don't have a problem with what you do. Maybe people have a problem with it because they feel like you pray on these type of women and it disgusts them. Why don't you have your own family? The post didn't really talk about that. Some of it didn't really make sense.
2007-01-16 06:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can understand you feeling disenchanted if the dancing is going a touch intense, yet there's no longer a lot you may do about it. except telling your mom it makes you sense uncomfortable even as she does this i do not imagine you may convey a lot else. She is both being insensitive in direction of you or perchance sees no longer something incorrect interior the way she dances with different adult men. i might want to be disinclined to say a lot more effective than that because if she would not make any attempt to judge the way it makes you sense, something else might want to easily finally end up in a controversy and also you may want to be accused of interfering. perchance make excuses no longer to ought to bypass out so in many cases jointly with her; have quiet evenings at living house. a minimum of you'll not ought to witness her behaviour that way. perchance she will be in a position to locate yet another interest except dirty dancing after a time and also you gained't ought to fret about it a lot longer. that is hoping!
2016-10-15 07:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by atleh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you come across as condescending. what makes you think these young women want to be saved or need a father figure. secoundly, how much older are you than these girls 'cause there is a certain yuck factor. if you are old enough to be their father or grandfather you can understand why people would be put off. you'd be crossing some lines.
how about finding someone your own age and adopting? if you want to be a parent so badly there are other alternatives for you to explore.
2007-01-16 06:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by peregrynsmum 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋