Ever since I told one of my best friends that I was bi, she's started to act differently around me. We've actually gotten a lot closer lately and when we hang out we always both say how we wish it was just the two of us or with less people around. One day i told her that I think I like her, and she said that she was totally fine with it, but she didn't tell me if she felt the same. Whenever we get drunk with our friends, the two of us are always all over each other (we hug and cuddle and whisper, but nothing more.) We always sit next to each other, and she often sits so close that we touch, even when there's plenty of other room for her. (and shes not the kind of girl to do that with her other friends) she always tells me that she would die if we ever got in a fight, and that she thinks i'm the coolest person she's ever met. she asks about girls i like often. does that sound like she's into me? I've always been too affraid to ask her directly, and i just want to get some feedback.
2007-01-16 06:12:31 · 8 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, I think she is totally into you. Just wait her out and see how it goes.
2007-01-16 06:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants you. I'd be subtle about asking her how she feels about you. Not just blurting out "do you want me?"
Worst case scenario, and least likely is that she's doing it to show you that she's okay with you liking girls, but getting carried away with it, or she's trying to keep you as close as possible because she thinks something could pull you guys away from each other. Like I said this is the least likely option.
But I wouldn't recommend to keep going out and getting drunk with her while you're having to question this. While good things may happen (and I mean REALLY good things), the result or her reaction afterwards when she's sober might not be so.
2007-01-16 06:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she date guys? The way that she is acting around you does sound like she might have some more than friend feelings for you. I definitely think you should ask her how she is feeling.
2007-01-16 06:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Dirty.Little.Secret. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she likes you. Sounds like she is a flirt. Now that she knows you are bi, she thinks she can flirt with you. She is getting exactly what she wants out of you. Find someone else.
2007-01-16 06:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely go for it, but you need to find out if she likes you first, so just non-chalantly ask her, or just one day when it's just the two of you cuddle up with her and whisper things to her and ask her ^_^ best of luck sweetie!
2007-01-16 06:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she might be interested but is not confident in herself or is afraid to try something different. ask her, nonchalantly, if she feels the same way towards you as you dfeel towards her. or maybe, you should just passionately kiss her once and see how she reacts.
2007-01-16 06:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by mybutterfliesarentdead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope don't really get your hopes up(i know i learned the hard way) they just dont see you as straight female no more
2007-01-16 06:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from where I sit it is a no-brainer... go for it.
2007-01-16 06:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by larrydoyle52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋