From the time I have been going to pre school I had trouble socialising with people of the same sex ,as I was most interested in guy stuff like playing video games, sports and so on, in my later years, I still liked doing that sort of thing, some girls thought I was weird because I didnt like the 'girly stuff' , however guys of all kinds still use to fancy me, and it made my situation worse because the other girls got Jealous now I am 20 years old, I still like to do the guy stuff but I like to do the girl stuff too,the clothes,shoes, nails, but I have gone past the stage of making friends, and I dont really have any gilrfriends my age I have 2, one i tolerate, the other has kids and relationship problems, so she is quite busy, I mean i cant posibly talk to the guy friends I have about certain things, what do I do? How can I develop a long lasting freindship, I lose interest very quickly and I have trust issues, as in my opinion women tend to back stab alot from experience.
2007-01-16 06:12:18 · 5 answers · asked by Jackie N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am kinda in the same situation or was anyways...I would just rather be around the guys because girls like to backstab. I started to take a swing dance class in college and I met some girls and now the 5 of us are best friends, you just need to try and get out
2007-01-16 06:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah , i am exactly the same, i just don't get along well with girls, they either want to lie, have sex with your man, talk about you, or so, I have 3 girls i can call friends and know they have my back and i have about 20 guy friends, that i trust and know have my back ,so my strategy is i just wait until i come across a person i truly like, that isn't fake and that person will be your friend for life.
2007-01-16 06:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to find good friends, even more so with guys as friends. Just have to be on the look out for good people...
2007-01-16 08:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been the sameway all my life.i have more fun hanging with guys.i use to have a few girlfriends but they started this crap of you were flirting with my boyfriend and then they start gossiping about you so my solution was instead of having girlfriends to talk to i started making friends with gay guys they are better girlfriends and they have better taste and better storys and more fun try that i bet it will work for you too.goodluck
2007-01-16 06:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by nancy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a group to join and talk to women, in my town we have a coffee house with an open mic night and people sit and talk
2007-01-16 06:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋