I'm popular in my school you know,all the guys wanna date me and the girls wanna hang around with me-but-I think it's just pretending.I heard my best friend told everybody that I'm a biatch and that i'm a whoare and stuff and then she hang around with me!!! So now I think the girls just want to be with me cause the guys are always near me and i think that they just want to use me=?
2007-01-16 05:53:10 · 13 answers · asked by glad to help :) 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
But I really don't like any of the guys an dmy "best" friend told me that i like Her boyfriend-I like him but as a friend and i'm not going to cry on my pillow and in our school there are only like 100 of students and the girls that hate me are in my class an dit bothers me that they are talking about me to all of my friends and then come and talk to me-that's what i hate-i don't care if she don't like me but she's mean
2007-01-16 06:16:24 · update #1
Dolores, you have my sympathies in a difficult situation. It sounds like you are concerned about what others think...so my suggestion is to begin thinking about yourself and learn to love yourself. You are absolutely unique in your own universe. You are the best friend you will ever have. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself as you are, without judgment. If you can learn to love yourself, then others will recognize that you are a complete person and will want to be with you because of who you are. You are great...recognize and acknowledge that. If others can't see it, that's their issue.
2007-01-16 06:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you that you're popular. Unfortunately, as a popular person you're going to run around thinking everyone is using you for your status.
Don't.
Those girls are followers and that girlfriend that said those things about you...I really don't think will have any weigh if you keep true to yourself. She's just jealous to be Nicole Ritchie and not Paris Hilton like you are...as a figure of speech.
Act graciously and appropriately so that people will never be able to match your actions with the rumors people spread about you.
As for the maybe-maybe-not friends...who cares?! They're all following you, they want to be around you, they look up to you. They can't possibly use you, you're on a different ground than they're on.
Oh and by the way...your best friend...is not really, and you should tell her that. If you can't, start hanging out with another girl you like to be around with and talk less with your two-faced friend. She'll get the picture and won't be popular with you anymore.
2007-01-16 06:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you see the drawback to being popular - everyone likes you but no one loves you.
Stop playing whatever games it takes to keep you popular. Be kind to everyone, but don't think you can please everyone. Pick a few people whose character you genuinely respect, and try to cultivate a real friendship with them. Talk to you "best friend" and ask her if she really said those things about you, and why.
2007-01-16 06:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about being popular, and they ain't hatin thin air. All the guys want to date you is the problem. Are they hating? yeah, but I think you like all the guys liking you and the popularity. If you were worried about other things the Hatin would decrease.
2007-01-16 05:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you truly took section in this troll invasion, your account has been reported various cases already. might want to've concept about that earlier you probably did what you probably did. i do not hate you yet I hate what you probably did.
2016-10-15 07:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by hinshaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll....i dnt think that is fair....and that is really unfair.......so...wa if the guys like you...gurls shouldnt just use yoo because you get them all.....yoo should just find sum new friends.... : ) 1's tht dont want 2 use yoo!!! Yoo should flirt with all the guys...so..then you are the only 1 they like...
2007-01-16 05:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by x-Kelly-x 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them and just move on with your life. You have much more to look for rather than dealing with bunch of rookies.
2007-01-16 05:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by flower 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what other people think. One thing you will learn as you get older is: it's not what other people think of you--it's what you think about yourself, that counts. Your opinion about yourself is more important than anyone else's. So, think well of yourself, and you'll be fine.
2007-01-16 06:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being fabulous always has a price. They're all haters. Go on being fierce.
2007-01-16 05:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by hellokitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are a be-atch and that everyone does hate you. Go cry in your pillow and write about what a loser you are in your diary.
2007-01-16 05:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Marbles 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋