I have a big crush on this girl and how can i deal with it?
Her and i are 17.
I know her because her friend introduced me to her and we have talked to each other whenever we had anytime.
She is attractive to me, she has a great personality, and a great sense of humor, etc.
Question: i have a big crush on this girl and how can i deal with it?
How can i express my feeling toward her like: i love you, i want to go out and date you, etc.
Just give me the best advice that fits for her and myself PLEASE TRY TO SAY IT IN DETIAL LIKE YOU ARE SPECIFYING IT i am trying not to be harsh!
Here is a secret: i already have her # i just have not called her yet. How can i try talking her for a sleep over so that way i could ask her if she wants to feel the way how i am feeling.
This is what i am feeling about her:
love (sex), dating (going to the movies), i want to talk to her about anything, etc
How can i express my feelings toward her!!!
Although i feel like that i want to have sex with her!!!
2007-01-16 05:51:36 · 13 answers · asked by Sewer Tank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go talk to her
2007-01-16 05:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by rudyspuddin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you just need to take it slow. You should also wait till you are married to have sex. First, so that you can be a couple, ask her if she wants to have coffie, or go to lunch one day. Casually have a nice conversation. And in the next week, just keep talking to her, and then the next weekend, ask her to dinner. Ask her out then. Then you progress from there. A movie, picking her up for school, shopping, going to the park. Do stuff that you both like. She sounds like a nice girl. Just don't have sex. Make out, knock yourself out, but don't go too far. Hope I could help. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-16 06:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by XD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take step by step. Since you have her number, call her and talk about interests and if you feel like it is the time to tell her, then GO AHEAD! It won't be as bad as not telling her. Just imagine if you never tell her, you will nvr know what could have been. Even if she says she doesn't feel the same way, it's still better then saying "what if" I give you the best of luck and GO FOR IT!! :)
2007-01-22 06:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her since u have her number. Give a damn abt her and make her feel wanted. Tell her sweet things and dont try to rush things. Weeks after calling her, ask her out to the movies or for lunch in a warming environment.Try to end ur date early ---no kissing and no touching. After ur first date, dont try to rush anything--dont ask for sex or anything, just try to make her comfortable. Call her again and ask her for the second date. During the second date, ask her to be ur girl and express ur feeling to her. Dont try to ask her sex during the first few months of ur relationship.
Neways, Gudluck!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 06:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by teemah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're in love with her. You just want to screw her. You're young, so of course you want to sleep with her because you're oh so horny at the age of 17.
I'm not going to give any advice to you into talking this girl into sleeping with you. No. But if you really do like her and you sincerely want to be with her without having sex right away, then just talk to her and tell her how you feel. Say that you really like her and that you want to be with her.
2007-01-16 05:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by somegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a sturdy word my pal. Love is once you gladly positioned the different persons emotions and desires above your very own. Love can take time and is conceivable purely after particularly understanding somebody. existence is short and it sluggish is effective, to effective to waste. in case you like her call her and ask if she might decide to circulate some place with you. "hiya I actual have an further fee ticket to the baseball interest might you elect to return?". "i decide to circulate see this action picture yet I hate happening my own". once you get to renowned the lady you will know if she is somebody you truly decide to this element. that's in all probability not clever to ask her for a nap over as she might get the incorrect concept or your intentions. Love does not equivalent intercourse. Lust equals intercourse. in case you elect an prolonged term dating discover out in case you have compatibility in my view earlier rushing into the actual. keep in mind which you're effective and have something to furnish. on no account be afraid to tell others the variety you experience. maximum possibly she feels an analogous way or is prepared to work out while you're Mr mind-blowing.
2016-10-07 06:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple : just like you have expressed your feelings to the rest of the Yahoo world, bravely and honestly.
2007-01-16 05:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are so into her then why not talk with her. communication is the only answer I could think of. it dose help when your both on the same page.
2007-01-16 06:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel and if she understand u can take it 2 the next level
2007-01-22 00:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i suggest that you just explain to her how you feel and how she makes you feel,, but dont rush her into ANNYTHING! when she is ready she will let you no in an obvios way plz let me no!!
2007-01-24 03:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u hesitate to talk to her on cell then sms her or send her e-mail saying wht u think abt her.
2007-01-23 20:01:48 · answer #11 · answered by gr8xperinced 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋